A special note to the person that is reading this right now. Manifestation is real, manifestation is powerful, and I want you to believe that you can manifest love! If you are reading this now, you deserve love. Welcome to the first step to your adventure in how to manifest love! Manifestation has a lot to do with the Law of Attraction. I created this article because I want everyone to experience love. I share this exact process and attention to detail with clients that have been able to manifest their soulmates, and I have manifested true love myself.
I am not going to give you short answers like you find in other articles you’ve read. I am going to go into every detail of what you need to know on how to start manifesting! Please feel free to comment on this article after reading if you have any further questions about this process. I am always here to help. You might be thinking, “Why are you giving all the answers away about manifestation?” Well, I truly believe everyone deserves love.
Wandering how to show love? 4 key points to help you get affectionate:
- Start by loving yourself
- Write down everything you want in a relationship
- Feel it into existence
Continue reading for more information on these key points!
Manifesting Love: The truth no one talks about…
Here’s the thing about manifesting love. You have to understand that the law of attraction aligns everything in life and just because you want something deeply does not mean that you will automatically get it. You have to be able to work with the universe for the universe to show up for you.
In the next paragraph, I am going to talk about the Law of Attraction and how that works to make more sense of the art of manifestation. But let’s talk about the key principles to start to understand as you go into this process. You have to let go of all timelines.
What do I mean by timelines? You have to stop saying you want something right now and putting a concrete reason behind it. For example, “I am 40 years old, and I need to find someone fast if I want kids” or “I am a single mom with two kids, and no man is going to want me.” The truth about manifestation is that you have to be able to get honest with yourself, be open to change, and remain open to seeing how you can heal any old wounds from your subconscious and conscious mind. You have to be open to clearing out old habits, beliefs, patterns from past love experiences, childhood traumas, and memories. Once you are open to this, you begin taking your first step. Your next step is allowing yourself to give up complete control and putting yourself first!
Let me break down the idea of “control.” Be open to the idea of trying new things and challenging yourself to experience these new things. Let’s say online dating scares you… Well now it’s time to try it, and stop controlling outcomes in your life that feel safe to you but are holding you back. You know they might be things that you need to deal with and face, or aspects in life that you need to try. I am not saying you need to give up control of the things that keep you safe in life. I’m talking about the complete opposite: The ways that you hold yourself back.
Now let’s explore the idea of putting yourself first. This takes commitment. What ways are you not putting yourself first in your life? Are you giving time to people that are draining you? Are you not being honest with the men or women you date by not saying you want a relationship? Are you giving your time to men or women who are unavailable? Are you giving time to a man or woman that does not fulfill you but loves you, simply because you feel protected by the fact that you’re in control and are not vulnerable to getting hurt by them? These are all ideas to think about. Also, this is partially what I mean about working with the universe. You have to show up and face the things that have challenged you so you can personally grow and be the best version of yourself that you can be.
So, what do you do once you’re there? Let me briefly explain how the law of attraction works.
How to manifest love with the law of attraction!
The universe is ruled by natural laws. We can fly airplanes, we invented electricity, and this all stemmed from a vision, an idea, a belief. Aviation works in harmony with natural laws. The laws of physics didn’t change for us to be able to fly, but we found a way to work by the natural laws, and by doing so we can now fly. Just as laws of physics work with aviation, electricity, and even gravity, there is a law that governs love. To harness the positive force of love and change your life, you must understand its law; the most powerful law in the universe – The law of attraction.
Law of attraction holds every star in the universe and the planets that surround us. Our cells within our body, the ocean that separates land, the thoughts that become actions, just like the bees that are attracted to flowers. This force is what holds us together. We are all attracted to different things, places, people, tastes, and we desire the attraction of love in all ways. Attraction is the force that draws people, animals, groups, and nations together because we all share one common interest: The love that you desire. So as The Power of Now book explains, the force of attraction is the force of love! Attraction is love. When you feel an attraction to your favorite food, you’re feeling love for food. Without attraction, you wouldn’t feel anything or have a desire for anything. Everything would be the same which would block all emotions and soul driven aspects, which incidentally is what drives our lives. Attraction is connected to the soul. Everything outside of us has no bearing because the soul is the driver of your actual connection and your true manifestation. Through the force of attraction, you feel love, and love is tapping into your soul where you hold power.
To further simplify things, here is another important note about the law of attraction. The universal term is the law of attraction. This means like attracts like. In simpler terms, what you give out, you receive back. This means your thoughts, emotions, feelings, actions, and beliefs. The key to all of this is awareness. You create your life with your thoughts and your feelings. You are a magnet!
How to Manifest True Love: 4 Real Life Tips!
I am going to give you the step by step process on how to get started, but don’t forget what I mentioned at the beginning of this article. This is the step by step process to follow once you’ve faced your challenges head-on and committed to carrying out deeper work. Example: If you still have anger and resentment towards an ex that cheated on you, then you have to work through letting this go. You cannot harbor any negative emotions related to love when you are manifesting true love. That’s why I created my Soulful Love workshop in which you can learn how to manifest the right man for you in 6 weeks.
So now that you’ve done that let’s begin…
Manifesting Love Tip 1: Start by loving yourself!
Waking up in the mornings and doing this is the best way to start. Write down things that you love about yourself and start to journal about them every morning. Read it every morning and add to it as your days go on. This will help you own it and in the morning this energy helps you become more in tune with who you are. It will help you to enjoy who you are in the moment right now. Start to have that inner self-talk dialogue about the things you love about yourself. If you have a tendency to look at yourself in the mirror and say things like, “My thighs are too big” then pay attention to your words and switch them to a more loving aspect about you. This is the first step to becoming aware. Observe your thoughts and challenge yourself to create new ones.
Manifesting a relationship Tip 2: Write down everything you want in a relationship!
A lot of people get this wrong. You don’t want to attach yourself to the idea of the desired person. You have to trust that the universe is going to give you exactly what you want. So if you have a crush on or are in love with Adam, you cannot put Adam on this list. You have to go with the feeling. Think, “I want to feel secure, trusted, loved, etc.” What do you want in a relationship? Yes, you can put handsome, but try and stay away from the superficial things and trust everything will fall into place.
How to use the law of attraction for love Tip 3: Feel it into existence
This is where it might be tricky for you but this is so essential for your growth in manifestation. You have to be able to understand the feeling of what you want and feel it around you. One thing I used to do is daydream about the feelings and tell myself I feel it coming, and I actually would feel it! It was incredible because I believed and knew in my heart that I would feel that sense of security and loyalty from a partner. Feel it to the point where it makes you happy. It’s like when you were young. Remember that imaginary friend you had? Well, this is the time to start doing it again. Let’s say you’re cooking dinner for yourself one night… Imagine your partner standing in the kitchen with you chatting and smiling. This is feeling it into existence.
How to manifest my soulmate Tip 4: Awareness
Understand that obstacles, tests, and lessons will be thrown at you from the universe and the key to this process is being aware 100% of the time. What I see many people doing is losing control of their thoughts and actions by giving someone else control or by losing hope whenever a challenge arises. Example: I had a client that was manifesting love but kept going back to a partner she didn’t want to be with. She knew it wasn’t right for her. So she did not create the space for her manifestation to take over and there was still a lesson to learn here. Her physical attraction to him was making her return to him, and her awareness was not strong enough at this point to show her that she was doing it as a result of feeling a lack of something in her life. She came to realize that this was stemming from a thought she was experiencing: “ I don’t know if true love exists because I have never seen it. “ This is common, but she became aware of the root which drove her to be attracted to things that weren’t good for her. Now she has started walking into awareness and has never looked back at that relationship. She is now moving towards becoming more aware and alert, especially since the universe will throw you challenges.
Let go of fear, and stop coming from a place of lack!
The best way to explain this is by giving you an example. Think about when you say things like, “ I am getting older and I will never have kids.” Though this is a valid concern and I am not dismissing it, you are only putting additional pressure on yourself. That pressure turns into fear and that fear turns into a lack of something. This has to disappear and you have to trust. Another example is dating someone and not being honest about what you really want. You may be feeling a lack of self-worth. Not being able to stand up and say “ I want a relationship” may make you attract unavailable men/women, or men/women that are too needy. It is a mirror of where you are right in that moment. Here is where you must become aware and change these things.
How to manifest true love: Tolerating the right things
This is divine timing in relation to what I just stated before. Let’s say that you give your time to that unavailable or needy man or woman. This is about showing up for yourself. The key here is not giving your time to the things that do not serve your purpose. The clearer you get on this, the faster your manifestation process will become. This is where many people get stuck, so the faster you walk away, the faster you will see results.
Manifesting A Relationship
When you become clear about what you want and believe in this process, you will start to see results. If you have doubts, yes, the universe will show you it’s worth believing, but you have to give 100% in order to get exactly what you want. So many of us think that relationships are just something that is handed to us in life and they are! I mean you can have just about any relationship, but in order to have the right one, you must truly be able to identify yourself and put yourself first. Never settle for anything less than what you deserve and understand that forgiving yourself for taking a step back during the process is OK. Everything works out in divine timing and in order to manifest the right relationships, you have to make sure you cultivate the relationships around you.
There is no exact timeline but what I can tell you is that the timeline is up to you! If you would like guidance on how to become more deeply connected to manifestation then I invite you to reach out to me here. Also, if deeper work is calling out to you please visit my workshop here to start manifesting your love life right now. If you have comments or questions I always love hearing from you. Please comment below and I will try my best to personally reply!
Sending you love,
Apollonia Ponti is a dating and relationship coach that helps soul thriving strong men& women build confidence in life to attract the right partner! Clients that work with Apollonia are known to increase their self- confidence and helps you master your dating life and manifest the soul thriving relationship into their lives! You can get in touch with Apollonia through her YouTube channel, private coaching sessions, or attract a man in 6 weeks workshop. To stay up to date with Apollonia subscribe here to her weekly newsletter.