Why Is She Ignoring Me? 7 Reasons Why.

Why is she ignoring me!!?? I know this process can be frustrating and leave you confused since your yearning for your loved one’s affection or attention. In this article, I am going to discuss the reasons why you are being ignored and what to do from here. It’s important to understand to not look past the things that got you to this point. Either you didn’t court her properly, you did something to ruin her trust, or she may not be interested. I will define all this as you read along.
One of the things that I often see men doing is not taking ownership to the reason why you may be getting ignored especially if you did something wrong in the relationship. But you taking ownership now by reading this article is the first step, so congratulations on becoming a better man! In this article, I am going to explain to you exactly what to do from here moving forward. After reading this article you’ll be less confused and you will know how to handle this moving forward.

How about if you didn’t do anything wrong and you feel like you’re being ghosted, or maybe she said: “I need space.” Well, this is where you’ll find all the advice you need!
I love hearing from you, share your feedback or questions in the comments below.

Why Does She Ignore Me: 7 Reasons Why

There are 7 key reasons as to why she may be ignoring you, these are:

  1. She’s bored
  2. You keep pushing a certain issue
  3. You’re too shy
  4. You’re inconsistent
  5. LIfe getting in the way
  6. She may have a new boyfriend
  7. There is no connection between the two of you

Read on below for more information on each reason!

She’s Bored- Typically a woman gets bored with you because there isn’t something new. You might be doing something with her that’s just routine and not enhancing the relationship. The thrill in the relationship might be lost. Here is where you should do something enticing and different. In relationships, you should challenge each other to step out of your comfort zones in healthy ways. So, if this rings to you and you feel like you’re getting ignored because dating you was too routine then try changing it up like go rock climbing, laser tag, vacation, beach, there are so many ideas. Look for ways that you can do things differently in a relationship.

Pushing an Issue- A lot of times I see men pushing issues on a woman about possibly spending time together or not getting enough time. Maybe she has kids, and you want to spend more time with her, you continue to push her on spending quality time together, and she ends up begin resentful or aggravated with you. This is the most common one I see all the time. There are a lot of other issues that you can continue to push on her, and it just ends up driving her away. Whenever I see couple’s pushing their problems on each other, I ask. Why are you forcing this issue? Is it for self-fish reasons, expectations or is it because you want to be in control? The relationship gets often destroyed because of this.

You’re Too Shy- You’re probably thinking what? I got to this point so why would she think I’m too shy. Women love a man that steps up to the plate and pursues her. So, if you’re going with the flow, she may think that you’re not serious about a relationship or her. Woman love when a man courts them to take her out and do things together!

You’re Inconsistent- If you’re not showing up for a woman by sticking to your words and following through then she might not be taking you seriously. So, if your dating a woman of high-value and she sees that your inconsistent she’s not going to wait around for you. Some examples of being inconsistent are not planning and doing everything last minute, not sticking to your word, sending a text every once in a while, to check in. What people call breadcrumbing. You sprinkle a little bit of attention to hope she sticks around.

Life- As general as that sounds life can get in the way! There is divine timing for everything and everyone. If you try to force your way through this, you will get hurt! Here is what I mean by this. Maybe she is working and trying to advance in her career or school and doesn’t have time for a relationship or the attention you deserve or want. Or possibly she isn’t ready to settle down at this very moment, and you can’t change someone’s mind about this. They will have to change their minds not you. If this woman wants to have fun, then my advice is to walk away.

She Might Have a New Boyfriend- Let’s face it, this happens more than ever now because people date several people at once. But it’s important to understand that it’s possible she was dating someone before she met you and advanced further into the relationship then she did with you.

She Might Not Feel the Spark- You may not have built an emotional connection with her, or maybe it just wasn’t there. A lot of men take pride in getting a woman to like them so they easily ignore signals of when a woman isn’t into them since they don’t want to pay attention to the signals. We all face rejection in our life, and it doesn’t make you any better or worse. So, if there is no spark there, I suggest you move on!

Why is she ignoring me if she likes me

Here’s the truth on what I see happening in almost 90% of my coaching sessions. A lot, of times the woman you like or you’re in love with is ignoring you because you became overbearing or may have influenced a lot of the arguments because of you possibly being co-dependent on her. Now, one thing that’s very important here is that you understand this is something that can drive a relationship downhill. Why? Everyone wants to have their personal space, and time for themselves. We tend to forget that we are all individuals and even though you are in a relationship or dating this person they still need their time to let things progress etc. I say this because everyone processes things differently. Possibly your someone who wants to talk things out right away but she might need her time. As people, we tend to believe that certain people, places, or professional aspirations are above us; better than us. You may feel they may be cooler, smarter or just generally more valuable than you are. So, instead of investing your time into yourself you invest it into them. You cater to their needs and forget our own- and this, to put it simply, is not fair. You are important, you are valuable, you are relevant. Our dreams are not above us, but rather, they are ahead of us. Use this moment right now as an opportunity to put yourself on the pedestal. Take control and don’t instill more worry or doubt because by doing this they know you will be there every single minute, hour, or day and end up taking you for granted. There is a difference between healthy dependencies and unhealthy dependencies which I talk about in another article so if this interest you, please feel free to click here to read this article about co-dependencies.

The best thing to do right now is giving her space. Don’t text, don’t call, don’t knock at her door. Don’t base your actions on emotions do them with logic by taking your time. When you take time for yourself, it’s essential that you redefine what makes you happy. To have a healthy relationship, it’s essential for your health as well. So, what can you do to enhance the relationship with yourself and focus on your qualities to attract the person or the right ones into your life? Having self-respect is continuing to do the things that make you happy, showing up for you, and setting boundaries on what is right for you and the relationship. Don’t act on emotions instead take the time that it takes to recover your emotions and come from logic.

Now, let’s chat briefly about if you were dating this girl and eventually you both just lost touch or possibly she never returned your calls. Well, most of the time when this happens she isn’t that into you. I know sometimes that’s hard to swallow as that takes a big hit to your ego but don’t let this get the best of you because once you find the one these things won’t matter.
I welcome your comments below. If you have any questions about a specific situation, please feel free to reach out.

Wishing you the best.

Your coach,

Apollonia Ponti

Apollonia Ponti, an international certified coach and founder of apolloniaponti.com. She works with men to attract the woman they desire, build confidence, master their attraction skills and helps rebuild relationships.

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  1. How true are those points about why a woman could be pulling back – ie: Life, Inconsistency and Not feeling a spark. I know for me personally- she nailed these on the head – as these have been my big pull away reasons in the past. Also – I think she gives great advice about just letting a woman breathe and have “space”. Again – that’s generally been an issue with me. If a guy pushes when I’m in a “need time to myself” zone – it’s only served to harmed the relationship in the long run. Thank you Apollonia!

    1. My girlfriend and I got into an argument New Years Eve because she drank way too much and became a bit verbally abusive so I left. I apologized for leaving the next day and asked her to talk this over with me so we can move forward and let this go. Her response to me via text was she’s feeling embarrassed/ashamed. I responded via text that we can get thru this. She hasn’t responded via text. I tried to call her cell phone once and she didn’t answer and I didn’t leave a message. Can you suggest a couple of ways I should handle this. I really care for her.

    2. Good info very well written , explaining the do and not to do was very good now let’s see if I can make work

  2. My girlfriend suffers from anxiety. When the anxiety is at its peak she pushes me away. In my mind that is when I should be helping her but I never seem to get it right. It’s hard to know how to deal with the situation

    1. Hello Joe,
      Thank you for your comment. I have experienced this a lot and it all depends on the dynamic of your relationship. I can help you with this but would have to have a conversation with you further about the dynamics of the relationship. Typically being there for her is key but usually, there is one minor thing that needs to change in the relationship when your in a relationship with someone who has anxiety. I would recommend a 30-minute coaching session you can find here on this link. https://www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching-2/

  3. Hey, thanks for the article it was helpful i’ve been dating this my girl for 3years and we’ve been in a long distance relationship through out and suddenly she ignores me when Im close to coming back to be with her…..Im confused

  4. Hi so I have a friend that I want to keep hanging out with but she keeps on ignoring me. like moves away like she hates me or something even though I never said or did anything.

  5. I understand all the reasons you stated but my female friend won’t respond to me to tell me anything at all. I just want a explanation and then I can move on. This isn’t the first time I’ve been through this before with the same female before she cheated on me.

  6. Hi Apollonia:

    A former female coworker and I were really getting along well and close. I thought she might be interested me because she would give me all the body language signals and talk about places she would like to visit that I had been to. But, I did see her at fast food chain recently and she really didn’t seem to excited to see me. We were scheduled to have lunch (her idea) that same day! but she cancelled because the person she was suppose visit at my work site was not there. We did sit down and talk though for about 25 mins. She did mention, she did not have much time during our coversation and had to get back to work. She then said ” I will see you later” and then got a drink at the soda machine. I then said ” I will see you later” we did not walk – out together. For a month and half, I have not contacted (text, called, email) her. I know we are really good friends! Should I intiate contact with her or let her contact me first? Last time, before this, she invited me to lunch and drove like more than 60 miles to see me (her idea again)! That time, she was really excited to me.
    She said it was sooo good! to see me that time! What do you think happened?

  7. Yes, Apollonia, I was really focused on a former female coworker, she hasn’t really been giving me much attention lately, like she would in the past. She would initiate texts, invite me to lunch, visit me in my office a couple times a day to chat. So, I have not contacted her in a month and a half. So, I don’t where this is going to go with our friendship. I am going to leave it up to her! But, I am also just focusing on myself because I now have more responsibility at work and this is keeping me very busy on other things and not her. I guess, I will see where this goes? What do you think? Should I contact her at all? Or Should I just let our friendship go?

  8. Madam,

    I have girl friend. We both are having two years friendship suddenly she told me you came with isuues. I don’t and then she goes silence. It is so hard for me
    And now ignore me .. i am trying to solve it but she doesn’t support . What will i do i don’t know

    1. After a long tyme (2 weeks) i met her, she was talking on phone and looks like nervous.but after seen me she run away quickly,we are not talking to each other.

  9. Hii Apollonia! I have been staying in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for past few weeks only , I love her so much and as far as possible text her whenever I get free time.both of us use to chat with eachother every night before sleeping but suddenly she just started to ignore my message and even said that she is a playgirl,it is hard for guy like me to swallow these things. Now she remains most of the time busy and not even care to see my message.what shall I do madam???

  10. Definitely believe that which you said. Your favorite reason seemed to be on the internet the easiest thing to be aware of.
    I say to you, I certainly get irked while people think about worries that they plainly don’t know about.
    You managed to hit the nail upon the top as well as defined out the
    whole thing without having side effect , people can take a
    signal. Will probably be back to get more. Thanks

  11. my crush used to fall in love with me before, we used to play alot, mingle alot, but now I just don’t get why she avoids me, I know her parents don’t allow special relationships, but could that be the reason? or has she fouhnd someone else? She doesn’t even say hi to me when I just pass by, what could be the reason?

    1. Hi Christian. Thank you for taking the time to read Why is She Ignoring Me? I would need to know more information in order to give advice for your situation. You could ask her why and find out. If she doesn’t respond then I would just to let her go. You don’t need to be around anyone that makes you feel bad.

  12. Hi I’ve read this article and I need advice. There’s a girl at work who’s shown signs of interest in me. She played footsie with me, mimicked me, looks at me etc… So I told her that I was looking for friends to hang out with. I wanted to take it slow before asking her out on a date. She looked up and smiled and told me the next weekend worked for her so we exchanged numbers. All of a sudden she became super cold to me. I asked her if she still wanted to hang out the following weekend next week and she said I’m busy this weekend maybe Friday I’ll get back to you. She didn’t. A few days later, I mentioned that another woman hit on me and she turned and looked at me. I started ignoring her and she started avoiding sitting near me. Finally, I slightly waved to her in the hallway, and she smiled and said hello how are you doing. What has been happening here?

    1. Hi Neil, thank you for taking the time to read Why Is She Ignoring Me. I would need more information to give advice. It sounds like she might have gotten jealous over something you did, or something she perceived that you did. I would keep the conversations light and fun and decide for yourself what you want. If you want to ask her out, ask her out, that’s how you start to get to know someone.
      I would suggest booking a private coaching session so I can help you further https://www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching/

  13. Well, when i ask her about avoidance and ignorance she says that she’s not. But, she told me she has problems that she doesnt want to talk about but why the change all of a sudden? We used to text all of the time, she’s always on the phone with me even asks about how my day goes all the time. Why she’s acting like out all of a sudden? I really love her and i need help!


  14. I upset a woman I like. She is ignoring me. Should I delete her from facebook and cut all contact? Will I ever get another chance?

  15. I upset a woman that I like. She is ignoring me. Should I delete her from Facebook? Cut all contact? I could just say hello, if I see her, and keep walking. What should I do?

  16. I have this girlfriend and we have been together for over five years. Ever since we started dating she was somewhat selfish, she always consider her happiness first and things got worse when I became an alcoholic. The condition lasted for at least 3 years and when I got done with it we somehow became lively again but I didn’t realize that she was cheating until she told me she was pregnant with another man and asked if I was ready to continue with her and father the child. I actually agreed. I had my reasons plus I love her so much. After a month a miss carriage happened and I was relieved that may our relationship could finally start afresh and prosper but my wishes were to no avail because she stared pulling herself away and it has been a month now. I am trying hardly to attract haler attention but she is just pulling herself away and I cannot help myself. I feel like unable to quit. Advice please.

  17. I have this girl I love so much who we use to get in touch every second and minute but now she has ignored and if I call her she talks shortly with me and give me an excuse for me to hung up and after I have she will be on a different call. If she sees my miss calls she doesn’t even bother to call me back. And I am thinking she has someone different and want to also feel normal with what she doing but it’s not working

  18. I have this friend of mine… I have feelings for her but I’m not sure what she thinks of me… if I don’t message her, she asks me what ya happened to me… and when I message she doesn’t reply … I’m totally confused about her

    1. Hi Karan,
      Have you watched my videos on YouTube about how to get out of the friend zone? I also have a blog on this that will help! Wishing you the best!


  19. I really needed to read this, because I still feel confused about her and what our situation is. We are both in recovery and I have 11 years and she has 5 months. Knowing this I have been cautious. However we spent 5 different times going out and doing things. A few of them she asked me. Once going shopping a she took me to victoria secret with her. She has sent signs she likes me and she knows I like her. But when I mentioned maybe taking her to the SEC championship game she got guarded. With being early in recovery I know she isnt ready for a relationship. I have been helpful but as well some things make it obvious i was attracted to her. Since then she has pulled back, doesnt really respond to messaging . Another guy took her to a UGA game, which I know is an old friend from her home town. But she is friendly at meetings when I see her. Its confusing. Any input? We have not kissed but she has made contact like caressing my arm and tight hugs.

  20. Thank you apollonia,i met this girl about a week ago,exchanged contacts and we seems to get along,but right about now she seems to be ignoring me,i havent told her that am inlove with her yet because i havent gotten the right time,what should i do?.

    1. Hi Horace,
      Thank you so much for your comment! Why is she ignoring you? This shows a sign of dis-interest and I don’t think you need to tell her your in love with her to get her back unless this is the reason why she left. Meaning she told you she loved you and you never said anything. Saying you love her will push her away further. Wait a while as you may have been too intense with an outcome and it could have ruined attraction.

  21. Please dont judge here but I’m really confused as to what to do or go about this situation.
    She’s married as am I, I met a girl from my gym and finally went out after months of flirting, we went out many many times but no intimacy at all on her part, she claims she’s bored of her marriage. After 2 months of dinners and lunches, she seemed to get cold towards me, the only thing I can think is I did repeatedly tell her how I strongly felt towards her but she never replied about how she felt, now we barely speak but she will call me very occasionally and if I call her, I get no answer or rushed off the phone. Unfortunately me being married and I know its wrong but I fell hard for this woman and I cannot get her off my mind. Btw I see her almost everyday at the gym and I do look forward to that, I just dont know what to say when I see her

    1. Hey Dargin. Thank you for reading why is she ignoring me. There’s no judgment, I would just really encourage you to look at what you want in your life, and if you’re unhappy in your marriage then I would really suggest focusing on that first and either communicating or separating from your wife.
      If this woman is getting bored in her marriage and stepping outside of it, it’s a red flag she will continue doing that in the next relationship.

  22. Thank you Apollonia,
    I met this girl about a 3 months ago and we had many dates. Few weeks ago, I told her that I like her and tried to kiss her but she resisted it. We talked about our relationship and she said that I like you but not ready for a relationship. But she always behave like me as a her boyfriend. We live in Japan and last week she went to our home country for a month. Last few days, she slowed down replying my texts. She’s sending some selfies. I feel that something wrong. Is she not interested me anymore? What should I do?
    Thank you

    1. Hi Albata. Thank you for taking the time to read my article on why is she ignoring me. I hate to say this but she told you that she’s not interested in a relationship. I think we’re ignoring this and this is a huge red flag. She’s just interested in the attention right now but she’s not emotionally or really even physically available. If you’re looking for a relationship, this is not the girl for you. We don’t change people or “fix” them. There’s nothing right or wrong you can do here. She might have gotten out of a relationship, or she’s at a stage of her life that she isn’t capable of showing up in that way… doesn’t really matter, she told you her truth. If you choose to ignore that, then that’s on you.
      Thank her for her time and wish her the best and start dating again and find someone who aligns with what you want. There are plenty of women out there who ARE looking for a relationship.

  23. Im really confused, iv known this girl for a while now i used to have feelings for her but due to age matter i concealed it but as we talk i find myself falling in love. However, recently she had been ignoring me for example i texted her 13hrs ago and she posted a new story asking ppl to be honest as 2020 is ending and she will keep it a secret by not posting the comment up 1hr ago. Weeks back when we had our 1st hangout with friends she voiced out to request for my jacket and ofc i gave it to her but on our 2nd hangout she declined my offer and even tried to avoid me… However aftr the 2nd hangout we still chat around through phones but its recently tht she start to ignore me. My guess is because of a friend of hers which is also a friend of mine(she dosent know abt my feelings towards my crush) This story that she posted, could she be posting this to test me? Is this my golden opportunity to confess? If i do im afraid of the akward vibes tht will destroy even our friendship if she declines

    1. Iv never really into horoscope readings but as recently i got into it its linking me any my crush as im a gemini and shes an aquarius, a good match written on most horoscope pages. I even tried a card tarot and it said tht my crush is possibly a aquarius(my crush) or a libra(another friend of mine) i am afraid i would be in a love triangle although i have interest in my crush and im starting to feel tht these are not just coincidence anymore. 😖 I am dying to get an advice but i couldn’t simply share this with my friends… Tonight may be the golden night for me or could be the death night for my feelings…. I dont knw what to do😭

  24. Hi I’m Belner,
    There is this girl who is named ash and I was talking to her for a bit now but I feel like she doesn’t feel the spark anymore and is ignoring me but I feel like she likes one of my friends cause he is everything I’m not. I’m shy he is out going, I’m inconsisten and he isn’t. I feel like I should just move on but I’m also friends with her brother and she seem like she don’t care about me but her brother

  25. I had realtion of 2year i Just abuse her she Told me to give space i didnt gave now jst she is ignoring me and telling i m broken bt she love me a lot now she is ignoring me

    1. Hi Basit. If you were abusive to her and abusing her, please get help and reach out to a therapist. Give her space. Abuse is not okay. Get the help that you need.

      1. There is a girl I like but don’t know if she likes me too .she some times talk too me but some times if I call her she doesn’t come some times I catch Her looking at me if she notices she looks away ,I see her touching her neck when she is passing by.some times she will act like if she doesn’t know me .does she like me or is she bidding her fillings.🤔🤔

  26. Hi I’ve been seeing this girl for about 3 months now and we have a really cool connection she wants to see me all the time .. I went away with my best friend of 9 years to visit her family I asked the girl if she would be fine with me going and she said that it is fine.. on the third day in she started acting weird and started ignoring me even though I was putting in effort to message her and send her photos of myself and what I was doing and collecting shells for her … I don’t know what to do ??

  27. Hi, I have a fling with her from the past 3 months and now she wants to end it all. But I feel she is the one for me. I know for certain this is not because she wants to end it, I have been having this feeling for a while, even before she told she wants to end this. Can you please guide me on what do I do now. I am sure I have fallen for her.

    1. Hey Ali. Thank you for taking the time to read Why is she ignoring me? She might not be ready for a relationship and she might have her own things to work out. If this is the woman for you, give this space. I would suggest giving this space and working on yourself. Ask yourself, why are you trying to settle for someone who doesn’t want to be in a relationship? Let her go to work on herself and do the same thing. You can reach out to her in a month and see if she’s responsive. But if someone is telling you they don’t want a relationship or to be with you, listen to them. We can’t change or fix people. But you can work on yourself and work on how YOU feel about yourself and your life. THAT will attract people to you.

  28. The behaviour of a lady I just proposed to has changed towards me. She is now very shy of me. She does not want to even look into my eyes or smile at my jokes.
    All of a sudden she doesn’t ask me how I am doing. She hasn’t replied my proposal. Please tell me I’m I the problem?

  29. I don’t know what reply I can expect but I’ll explain about my situation in brief and this has effected me a lot in few days.

    My very good friend, hanging out most of the time together and in between I fell in love with the girl. I mean true love. I just can’t get off her. Judging, observing desperate condition of mine in front of her. She asked me about it on a call and I couldn’t tell her directly there. I always wanted to tell her in person. But now indirectly she knows. And after that many times she asked me to meet and talk about this. But at the end moment she cancel plan and run from the situation. She haven’t met me. But whenever she meets, it’s all Normal she behaves like nothing ever happened. We used to talk a lot before but. Now situation has become awkward. I just don’t know what to do. Because I just can’t live like this now. This thing is always on my mind. I’ve decided not to talk to her for a while. But still I can’t live like that. What’s your take on this ? And can I get any clue here that what is going on her mind?

  30. Good socially aware points. My issue with the XX persuasion, why do women feel that after being with the person they love nearly day-in-day-out, going incommunicado is an acceptable form of breaking up? Why do they act so careless and willfully ignore pointed questions in an effort for the man to better understand why the situation occurred? I ask, “I understand you no longer want to be with me, but could you please tell me how I failed you?” No response. Does anyone else think that kind of behavior is straight up cruel?

  31. Hi ,
    There is this girl which I met in an event..we live in different cities.. we continued chatting on phone and some connection struck between us. After a month on phone we met at nakther event for around 4 days and we had the best time of my life.. after that we used to video chat day night for almost a month and half..we got really close to.each other emotionally ..and she even considered giving relationship a shot when she is ready.. suddenly she realised she was getting vulnerable and putting her guard down. She knows i am serious about the relationship and wanna take it forward. She asked me she wants to space out for a while and i panicked..i became pushy and needy ..which was biggest mistake i did..i realised it later.. she pushed me away for a while..i went through ur articles so i tried no contact rule for a month.. she started responding on my social media slowly.. she replies with one word and take times to reply back..
    Just wondering if she is really interested in me and tetsing me if i am still the same with no patience..or she has move on.. please help..

  32. Hi,
    I am from India..There is this girl which I met in an event..we live in different cities.. we continued chatting on phone and some connection struck between us. After a month on phone we met at nakther event for around 4 days and we had the best time of my life.. after that we used to video chat day night for almost a month and half..we got really close to.each other emotionally ..and she even considered giving relationship a shot when she is ready.. suddenly she realised she was getting vulnerable and putting her guard down. She knows i am serious about the relationship and wanna take it forward. She asked me she wants to space out for a while and i panicked..i became pushy and needy ..which was biggest mistake i did..i realised it later.. she pushed me away for a while..i went through ur articles so i tried no contact rule for a month.. she started responding on my social media slowly.. she replies with one word and take times to reply back..
    Just wondering if she is really interested in me and tetsing me if i am still the same with no patience..or she has move on.. please help..

  33. She sent me a nude shower video in november , but since January she been ignoring me she a Gamer , but she hasn’t deleted me on Facebook but she deleted her other male friends. We live in different county so I haven’t asked to be in a relationship yet . I’ve been friends with her since i was in a relationship with my ex 3 yrs ago

    1. Hi Samir,

      Thank you for contacting us.
      We have your information, We’ll make sure to contact you in the next few business days.
      Apollonia’s team

  34. If Apollonia knows so much, as she herself is a Dating Master, how toughest will be to Date her? One who will become Soul-Mate of Apollonia, he’ll be the master of masters in attracting and dating a girl, if Apollonia won’t choose to go for Arrange Marriage.

    1. Hi Pankaj,

      thank you so much for reading our blog and for your kind words 🙂

      Apollonia’s team

  35. i recently met up with an ex bf from 8 years ago and he told me he currently doesnt have the time to give to a relationship. But that doesnt mean he doesnt want to and that it could happen down the road.
    now, he continues to text or message but only says “hi” and i havent responded back because i think he just wants sex again and i want a relationship.
    I am afraid if i do respond i will be weak and continue to have sex with him and that will only cause me extreme pain and sadness.
    we are both currently single, i am not sure how long i can go on not responding to him. he has text me 4 times in the last 2 days and i have just ignored them.
    any advise on how i should handle this???

    1. Hello Val, thank you for reading “Why Is She Ignoring Me? 7 Reasons Why.” In order to get advice pertaining to your situation, I would encourage you to book a coaching session with her so she can help. Here are the links with more information. https://www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching/

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      Take care and best of luck!

  36. A girl told me she liked me but her past relationships are not great so I don’t know maybe she’s hurt but she keeps on ignoring me. I asked her it’s okay if you don’t want to keep dating me you can tell me but she said she is afraid and I’m doing good , what does that means ?
    Should I keep on pushing this tries ?

    1. Hi Sundeep,
      I believe we did not focus too much on attraction and possibly started to tell her our feelings? Am I correct? If so, there are a lot of blogs and videos about this and what to do on my YouTube channel as well. 🙂
      You will find a lot of content that may help!

  37. Women ignore me because none of them have the slightest interest in me – they do not feel attracted to me sexually. I do not (and will not) express my interest because the evidence is that women are not sexually attracted to me. I have many women friends who tell me there is nothing wrong with me and that I’m a true gentleman with literally every quality many women want in a boyfriend. My question to them is, if that’s the case, why hasn’t anything ever happened? Not one woman has *ever* expressed the slightest interest in me as anything other than a platonic friend. They respond that most women – even if they are very turned on by a guy – expect him to make the first move. For me, unless I sense a *clear* sign that a woman wants me to do that, that’s not going to happen. The conversation usually ends there.

  38. There a girl I find very attractive I knew her over some months we don’t usually hang around, later I found out that she is from my village so we knew eash other better ,so times she would talk to me ,joke with me then some times if I call her she will come some times she will not come some times I will notice that if she is passing by she will be looking at me and if I notice she is looking at me she will look away she some times touch he neck but after all this if i call her she will act like if she doesn’t even know me.does she like me or is she hidding her fillings.

  39. There is a girl I like but don’t know if she likes me too .she some times talk too me but some times if I call her she doesn’t come some times I catch Her looking at me if she notices she looks away ,I see her touching her neck when she is passing by.some times she will act like if she doesn’t know me .does she like me or is she bidding her fillings.🤔🤔

  40. Hi
    I asked a girl out I see quite regularly, said yes, we talked when we saw each other a few times a week but still hadn’t set up a time after maybe a month or so, then she started going pretty cold on me so I didn’t talk to her for the last few weeks, is it likely she thought I flaked or wasn’t interested with the date not being set up quick enough? Both had busy schedules so I was trying to be patient.
    (I know she’s been hurt before & has some anxiety issues )

    1. Seems like she is not ready for something more. I would pace yourself in this new thing with her. And just make sure you don’t get caught up in the chase. 🙂
      – AP Team

  41. Hey, to be honest, I just loved what you wrote in this post. While it is true that there are hundreds of posts on this same topic but yours is certainly unique. The unique approach taken by the writer is probably the main reason I shared this post on both my Facebook and Twitter pages. As expected, people are reading it and giving me all sorts of positive feedback.

  42. Hello,
    Not sure if you are still replying to these but thought I would give it a shot. A girl i used to date a few years ago messaged me randomly to catch up. We had dinner and really hit it off again. We hung out a few more times and talked every day for almost a month. She said she wasn’t ready to be in another relationship bc she had just gotten out of a 6 year relationship where she was engaged. She all of a sudden stopped responding to my messages. I think the reason for this is because I would continue to tell her i liked her and stuff like that and it made her feel like she was pushed into something she wasnt ready for. She also mentioned reconnecting with a boyfriend she had before me. So that may have played a part in the reason for ignoring me as well. She hasn’t deleted me on social media. I have sent her 3 messages since she stopped responding. First one was asking her to talk about it and saying if i dont hear from her that i wish her the best. second was saying that i dont resent her and i want her to do whatever makes her the happiest and the last one was telling her to let me know if she wanted something she let me use back (a food container). My question is do you think there is any chance that she will contact me again?

    1. Hi Anthony,
      Thank you for reading Why Is She Ignoring Me. We do need more details in order to respond to your question properly. I would recommend contacting one of our coaches so they could really help you and give you the best advice possible. Here’s the link to the coaching page on our site.https://www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching/
      Team Apollonia

  43. I have a situation where the girl just wanted to have sex, she lied about her boyfriend being out of her life, after a year I found out that she loves the boyfriend but the sex is poor, whenever i would call or text without her permission she would tell me about boundaries, and finally i realised the boundaries was the boyfriend.

    She claims she has forgiven me but doesn’t have the energy to make any effort, well she doesn’t know i know the truth. Personally I would like to build a friendship because I don’t have grudges but I’ve decided to stop crossing oceans for her.

    1. Hello Masingita,

      Thank you for taking the time to read my blog post, Why Is She Ignoring Me? 7 Reasons Why.
      I am grateful that you shared your specific situation with me.
      I would like to help you with your specific situation. All you need to do is head to this link to book a 1 on 1 coaching session with me or one of my coaches:https://www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching/

      I look forward to working with you!

  44. I texted my gf that she has changed but she simply gave thumps up reaction than. I apologized but she ignored me full day and didn’t answered my call….But when she called me i said in anger what do you want she simply cut the call….And after that i apologized her but she is again ignoring me …. What should i Do?? Plz tell

    1. Hey Aman!

      Thank you so much for reading my blog Why Is She Ignoring Me? 7 Reasons Why.
      Your situation is very frustrating indeed! We would love to offer you 1 on 1 coaching so we can help you navigate this situation with your girlfriend.
      Just head to this link to sign up for coaching! https://www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching/

      Team AP

  45. I’m tired of dealing with rejection, but don’t get me wrong you do have some good points. This seems like a common issue nowadays I don’t usually have this problem and I talk about this with my therapist. It can get tough to the point I feel down and out. I send messages all the time and no response and when they do respond they end up in an argument and that’s that.

    1. Hello Germaine,

      Thank you so much for taking the time to read my blog Why Is She Ignoring Me?
      7 Reasons Why. I am so happy to hear that you found this article useful to what is going on on your life.
      I am sorry to hear that the communication is leading to an argument. We can certainly help you with this.
      All you need to do is head to this link to book a 1 on 1 coaching session with one of our coaches: https://www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching/

      We look forward to working with you Germaine!
      Apollonia & Team

  46. Pls wish to ask that, why would a girl at times tell u she misses u, or tell u she likes u, but when u tell her about ur feelings towards her, then she starts ignoring u.

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