How To Make Her Miss You! 6 Tips To Get Results!

You’ve been questioning yourself lately, right? “Am I important to her or not?” “She used to be so much more into me,” “I don’t want to lose her!,” “Will she break up with me?” “How do I get her to want me more?” Perhaps you have even hit a plateau and you’re unsure, and it’s like you’re not progressing to the next level in the relationship. You two might not even be in a relationship yet! She might not be giving you any signs that she really wants to commit to you right now, but you want her to miss you and crave having you around, and you want to master attraction in order to make her want you more.

Well, the good news is that you’ve come to the right place! This article is going to break everything down on how to make her miss you. So it’s important that you read till the very end. By the way, I love hearing from you so please share any questions or comments below and I will personally answer them.

Make Her Miss You: Here’s the Key!

First things first! I don’t want you to think that this is the end of it. If you think that this is the end of it then you have set yourself up to lose already. Mindset is everything in attraction and in life. If you dwell in the mindset that this is the end, you will attract this with your energy and this is exactly what it will end up happening. What I do want you to do, is not only read this blog, but to continue reading my blogs about how to attract women, and how to become an attractive man in order to become more magnetic. You will be sure to get results!

“Apollonia, how do I get this woman to miss me?” Well, the reason why she does not miss you right now is that the attraction was killed. You have to reignite attraction and light her fire again!

Keep in mind that you have to sometimes walk a cold brisk walk before you start making the flame grow and warm up. In other words, distance is what is going to help you get her to miss you.

Let me guess… Perhaps you did the exact opposite because you’ve been thinking, “Well, if I give her distance then she will fall for someone else.” Again, if you think this then you’re accepting to lose! So stop that. 🙂 You have to get her to want you! You have to draw her in and maintain the mystery. You have to be the man that she desires that’s decisive, unapologetically honest, and is empowered with life and himself. If you really want to know how to get a girl to want you and miss you when you’re not around, THIS will get her thinking about you!

Alright, so let’s talk about what to do moving forward. I always talk about how the feeling of missing someone enhances the sense of mystery. This is the key to getting this woman to miss you because mystery builds curiosity, and you want her to think of you in a different way.

At this moment, she might have complete control and know that you want her. So, all she has to do is pick up the phone and say, “OK, I want to be with you” and you will automatically say YES! Right? Well, this is going to change. Mystery is great and exciting in every way; especially when it comes to courting, dating, and even being in a relationship. But these all happen in different stages.

There is a difference between being a little mysterious and just hiding things from your partner. So I do not mean that you have to be dishonest, but keep things fun. Keep things enticing. Keep things mysterious so both of you can feel the attraction no matter what when you are in the dating phase. This is what makes someone crave your company and miss you when you’re not around.

6 Tips on How To Make Her Miss You and Want You More!

If you find yourself wanting this woman more than she wants you, then these are the tips you’ve been waiting for that will make her want you more. If you want to know more about each tip- continue to read below!

  1. Set a goal
  2. Make her miss you by posting on social media
  3. Cut off contact for a while
  4. Be aware of your emotions when you want someone to miss you
  5. Have the right mindset
  6. Don’t fake it, make genuine change

How to make her want you and miss you: Set a goal

: Right now, you are going to entertain yourself by trying out and doing something you’ve been wanting to do for a long time! You are going to invest some time into something you’re passionate about or book a trip somewhere new. If you’ve been wanting to learn how to play the guitar, now is the time to take some guitar lessons. Women are attracted to a man that is determined to do things he likes. She will start to see that you are investing in yourself and not spending all your time focusing on her which will build attraction. On top of that, it makes you look like an exciting challenge to her.
You might be thinking, Well how will she know what I’ve been doing if she isn’t talking to me?”

Oh, she will. She will reach out to you and this is how you can showcase change when you’re talking about what you are up to. But that’s not all. Following more of these tips will grab her attention and entice her to reach out to you!

Make Her Miss You by Posting on Social Media

Start posting a bit more on social media platforms. You want to show the new things that you are up to here and there. So if you follow the first tip, then post some nice photos of you doing just these new activities. Next, you want to post some photos with friends and family every once in a while to show that you are happy and joyful.

What you don’t want to do is post quotes and memes about feeling depressed or sad and think it will make her want you. It will get her attention but not in a good way. You want to show her that you are focusing on bettering yourself and that you are 100% focused on you. You are changing your behaviors and patterns.

I Miss You: The Power of No Contact

This is where a lot of people lose focus and they don’t know what to do moving forward. This can be the hardest part. I want to remind you that just because you take distance, it does not mean that you will lose this person. You have to remember that in dating and relationships, you are still your own individual and you have to look out for your best interests.

If this woman was taking over your emotions and you were letting your emotions ride on her behaviors, then it’s time to do a self-analysis during this no contact period. Remember, just because she reaches out once does not mean that you have to respond immediately.

Be Aware of Your Emotions When You Want Someone to Miss You

When you start to focus on why you feel a certain way and why your happiness might be dependent on another, then this is when you start to zero in on the root of what is causing this. This will help you become more aware of yourself and your emotions. This is a process and it requires work, but this is how you grow. This will help you to become more in control of these things when you see her again and helps you pace yourself. You don’t want to dive in right away just because she wants to see you for coffee. Remember, the key is to change your approach and demeanor towards her.

Mindset When You’re thinking “I miss my girlfriend”

This is one of the biggest tips of them all! A lot of times, we listen to the daily negative thoughts that come into our minds because this is what we’ve taught ourselves to focus on. So like I said, if you think negatively about this situation, you are already setting yourself up to lose. Basically, you already lost! Women want a man with an abundance mindset; not a mindset of lack, or scarcity. This won’t attract us, so start becoming aware of the inner dialogue you have with yourself during this time!

Trust Me, You Can’t Fake It

You can’t fake it, right? You really have to change the behaviors that influence the relationship for her to either push you away or for you to make her miss you. You don’t want to fake it, because, at the end of the day, you have to change your behaviors as I stated at the beginning of this blog. Growth is the ultimate element in attraction.

How To Make A Girl Miss You: What It Boils Down To!

The reason why you’re hoping this girl will miss you is often because of the fact that you’ve killed the attraction between you. So now it’s hard for her to see you in that light. You have to influence, and you have to change any behaviors that have influenced this activity. Think about your own actions. For example, were you too attentive? Were you too available? Were you too pushy? Were you too needy? Did you come on too strong? What were the things that you did that didn’t work, and you have to do exactly the opposite. You really have to get clear on that. So ask yourself these questions. Once you change your behavior, here is how the woman starts to think.

“Why is he not paying attention to me?” “Why is he acting differently?” “Is he thinking about me?” “Is he dating someone else now?”

Now, following in line with this, I want to mention that you should not accept all invitations from her. Okay. When you start doing this, she’s going to start missing you, because, as I said at the beginning of the blog, missing someone is enhanced by mystery. There’s a mystery involved when you take her off that pedestal.

The first thing that you cannot do is this. When she invites you to do something or wants to know what you’re doing, do not come out and tell her 100% of what it is that you’re doing. Don’t jump in with excitement and say things like… “Would you like to see me on Saturday?” “Oh, my God, I haven’t heard from you in a long time.” “So happy you are contacting me” or “I missed you!”

If you do this it will kill a month’s worth of mystery.

Instead, let me give you some text examples on how you respond when this does happen.
She’s asking how you’re doing so you go, “I’m doing great, there are a lot of really great things going on. Thanks for asking.” Closed-ended.

Let her respond again, “Oh, so what you been up to? I’ve been seeing all these Facebook posts of you and the ski lodge. Who are you with?”

“Oh, I’m just with some friends, and yeah, I’ve just been out here doing my thing, really enjoying it. Thanks so much for checking in.”

Again, closed-ended. Mystery, mystery, and mystery!

A lot of men think, “Oh, my God, Apollonia, how can I do this? She’s finally reaching out to me. She’s never going to reach out to me again if I do this. I’m just pushing her away.” No, you’re not, okay? Calm those voices down. Remember, the mindset is the key point in one of the tips we’ve mentioned. What I’m saying is exactly what you need to do, because when you do the opposite of what she expects and she reaches out to you after you’ve done this whole mystery thing, worked on yourself, and released attachments or neediness towards her, and then all of a sudden she texts you and you’re immediate at her beck and call again, it’s just going to throw all the power back into her hands and kill the mystery… again.

Back up. Let her come to you now.

How To Make Your Girlfriend Miss You: Maintaining Your Sense of Self!

Lastly, limit the telephone interactions when she starts reciprocating and when she starts asking you questions. I’m not saying you should go a week without checking in with her. What I am saying is to stop being 100% available to her. Don’t send her pictures every single day of what you’re doing. Let her try to figure out what it is that you’re doing, and be decisive in what you’re saying and how you’re showing up, and stay clear on how it is that you want to be perceived by her. When you want someone to start missing you, think of it like you’ve started dating again.

Remember to never put aside the personal things that you are doing for yourself, and don’t stop focusing on the goals that you have maintained during this time of working on yourself. You want to always put yourself on a pedestal and make sure you understand that you have a lot of dignity. You have enough respect for yourself that you can open up the space to set boundaries on how you will be treated, and respect others as much as you respect yourself.

When you are clear with your values and the things that you want from a woman, this is when you can become aware and voice what you want moving forward as she starts coming back to you. Make sure you are clear with your intentions in what you want, and make sure you are showing up as the best possible person you can be in your life starting today! You don’t want to be a man that’s 100% in. I always say, men, if this woman is not your girlfriend, in order for her to really truly figure out who you are, you have to mirror what she’s giving you. In the beginning, sometimes it’s 20 to 30% you have to give a woman. Of course, you want to give respect. It’s a two-way road. You want to hold your self-dignity and come from a place of confidence to know that she has to offer you something, and it’s not only about what you can offer her.

Your coach,

Apollonia Ponti

 

Apollonia Ponti, an international certified coach and founder of apolloniaponti.com. She works with men to attract the woman they desire, build confidence, master their attraction skills and helps rebuild relationships.

You can find her expert advice on “is she using me”, plus a couple other of your core professional services, through her YouTube Channel, and Attract a Woman E-Book.

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  1. Hi Apollonia. Hope all is well.

    I went on a date with a woman about two months ago and everything seemed to have gone fine. We’ve been texting a bit since then but I’ve noticed that she is bad at responding back. I’ve tried calling but it doesn’t work either. I’ve asked her out on a second date twice and she has agreed twice but when I suggest where and when, she doesn’t answer. I only get an answer a week later about something else if I initiate the contact. She says that she’s overwhelmed with work. I’m busy with work too but can’t imagine a job that is 24/7. After reading your blog, maybe I should be distancing myself a bit so that she can miss me? Let her initiate the contact?

    If you could please advise.

    Thank you

    1. Hi Sirlio,
      Thank you for your comment and reading my blog about how to make her miss you. I 100% believe you should back away and let her come to you. If she contacts you do not ask for a date immediately. When she reaches out again then you can ask and when you do pick a place and a time. A lot of girls do not like when you ask the woman where to go. Just pick a place and time so she can show up. Don’t initiate contact at this point and best of luck!
      -Apollonia

  2. Hi Appolonia. Hope you are all good.
    I am seem to be a bit confused on this whole making her miss you through distance thing. There’s this girl whom I have kept quite attracted over the course of months, to the point she’s hinted at dating. When I asked her out, she became very flirty through text and came on pretty strong. I of course, reciprocated such to an equal or greater extent. She made it clear it was a relationship even before the first date. But once the date came along, she became shy and nervous, and when I asked her if she’d consider it a relationship, she said she “wasn’t ready” and wanted to “focus on her studies”. She also said that it was “ok that we liked each other”, but “would like to wait until university”. I was skeptical of this, I had already known that there was another dude that she liked and spent heaps of time with. I left at that. I called her a few days later, and she sounded uninterested. I texted her a few days after that and she clarified that she “wasn’t into the likes thing”. Currently, she takes active steps in ignoring me.I just don’t know what to do anymore.

  3. Hi Apollonia. I have a little grasping what you said, mainly because of what I experienced. There was this girl who I kept attracted for a few months by keeping mystery and distance, while showing some interest. To the point she hinted at dating. After I did ask her out, she came on very strong and was very flirty via text. I returned the attitude to a greater extent. She immediately clarified that it was a relationship even before the first date. But once the date came, she said she was “not ready for a relationship” and “wanted to wait until uni”. I doubted this as I knew she liked another dude as well, which she spent lots of time with. I decided to pull back as I usually do and make very little contact afterwards. She now ignores me and I have no idea what to do.

  4. Hi Apollonia,
    I found your youtube and podcast this past weekend. I listened to all of your podcasts! Dating is hard even when you are older. I am a 58-year-old man, successful, in good shape and even have my hair! I have been dating a 56-year-old woman for a year and 2 months who I have fallen in love with and she with me although I feel like she is losing interest and frustrated. She has a very busy career and a 17-year-old son at home. My girls are out of the house and my life is a bit less hectic. I have done all of the things you say not to do like being too available, very attentive, pleasing her, our world revolves around her schedule, etc. We had a little disagreement (we never have really had a fight) on a Monday. She hurt my feelings and I was a upset which now I realize was dumb. On Friday I sent her a text that I should give her some space. As much as she needs. She agreed and thanked me for noticing. Her response was that she feels like she is not being a good girlfriend and wants to figure out why. She contacted me earlier this week and thanked me for space and was looking forward to the Gala this coming Friday. I said I needed more space to work on myself as I realize my behavior is pushing her away. Maybe a couple of weeks but would go to the two upcoming Galas. Ok So what do you think and how should I proceed? Thank you!

    1. Hi David. Thank you for taking the time to read How to Make Her Miss You. I would need to know more to give more advice. But I would continue to work on yourself. You can work on your confidence. It seems like perhaps something she said triggered a larger response in you. I would recommend the Overcome Your Neediness and Insecurity seminar https://www.apolloniaponti.co/neediness-seminar-nai
      You might need to work on your mindset. To better help with this, I would suggest a private coaching session. http://www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching/
      Best,
      Apollonia

  5. My lady and I have been dating for about 6 months. I understand that her school work comes first but I don’t feel like I’m being missed and we’re engaged.
    So my question is …What if you’ve lost your job, and you only get to talk or text throughout the week except for Wednesday and some sundays you get to see each other because she’s in school. Should I have let her know over the phone or txt? (I sent a txt below )

    Alexis: Hey babe. How’s your day going? Mine has been chill. I’m deep in studying

    Me: It’s going great actually. Working on some things!
    Even though I was walked off the premises last night for being late on first shift. So, I’ll either be notified monday to come back to work or grievance to plead my case.

    1. Hi Kent, thank you for taking the time to read How to Make Her Miss You. It sounds like it just might be temporary. Focusing on yourself and getting another job, your hobbies and continuing to hang out with friends, that way you’re not just waiting for her to miss you and waiting for texts. I would need to know more about the situation to better give advice on this. I would suggest booking a private coaching session. http://www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching/
      Best,
      Apollonia

  6. Hi Apollonia. May I ask you a question? So there is a girl that I like and I’ve been following your advice regarding being distant to her for her to miss me. I’m not contacting her in chat or text, I post happy photos of myself in social media, I’m trying to be mysterious to her, all this stuff but she is my workmate and it is very hard to ignore her in person. So my question is, is it okay to talk to her once in a while “just in person only” for her to see that I am confident if she’s around? Actually, I tried to ask her a favor to do something for me but it bothers me because I don’t know if that is okay or not. Though, my reason why I did it is that I wanna know how she will respond to me after I Ignore her and of course, for her to notice that I am confident around her. Thank you for your time reading this. More power to you.

    PS. Her reaction after I ask her a favor is satisfying for me. I can tell that she misses me even for not a very long time of being mysterious.

  7. Hi Apollonia,

    Im one of your top fans since there are lots of sense in your advice. Id like to ad that many other “love gurus” dont have the ability to explain like you do. Im a handsome spanish guy with no problem with love, but love to read about love to strenght my skill just like I do with my body at the gym every day. I had some knowledge about getting girls, and now you’ve mastered my pride and thank you because of it. I wish you the best in your career helping men around the world. God bless you.

    D.

  8. Hi Apollonia,

    I met with a girl on facebook she was from my college.we had a good time together but i fell in love with her she accepted me but after some months later i just hurted her by saying that dont talk to other guys am i not enough for you she said no. After that day she dont miss me , love me i am the one who sends good morning and all wishes what should i do to get her back as my lover??

    1. Hi Talha, thank you for taking the time to read How To Maker Her Miss You. It sounds like you might have gotten to possessive and that can come from fear and insecurity so you might have tried to control her. I would suggest really doing the work on yourself and finding that confidence. Beginning her and asking her to come back is going to push her away more.
      I would suggest a private coaching session http://www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching/
      Best,
      Apollonia

  9. Hi Apollonia,

    I have to say you’re videos on youtube and website is a great addition to my relationship life at the moment! if I only I stumbled across it a few weeks earlier. Loving this article so going to give it a try. I didn’t want to believe it but I was becoming needy and insecure with a long-distance relationship I’m in at the moment. We’ve both mentioned that online communication is hard and she highlighted “it doesn’t feel the same” since she moved away a month ago. I’ve already booked a flight to see her in two months. My question is do I keep up the none contact until I fly out?

    Thanks,

    Jeff

    1. Hi Jeff, thank you for taking the time to read How to Make Her Miss You. Long distance is hard but the thing to keep in mind here, the reason it’s hard is because you guys enjoy each other! SO that’s a good thing! Focus on your life right now too, fulfilling it, making it bigger, hobbies you’ve always wanted to do. Pull back and check in every 2- 3 days right now. Take out your emotions. Pause before you’re messaging or talking to her and ask yourself, “what is my intention here? Am I trying to get her to validate me?” that’s going to help a lot.
      I would encourage a private coaching session so I can help you through this http://www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching/
      Best,
      Apollonia

  10. Hello,

    I read this article this morning and found it helpful. I’ve been talking to this girl that I am very interested in off and on for a few months now, yesterday she said we are a “thing”, how should I take that? Definitely looking for things to do to make her miss me more and wanna spend more time together.

  11. Hi apollonia. Does this work on a woman who tells you she Is unsure why she doesnt have the same feelings for you. Yet tells you that she doesn’t know what the future holds. Or did I just get freindzoned?

  12. I don’t know if she really cares about me, that situation that she gives more attention to a certain guy rather than me, that situation when she chose to come with her friend instead of coming with me, I don’t know if she really cares about me, that feeling I keep asking my self If she really knows what to do in a relationship, she did those to me one time but she just cant say no to other guy’s actions to her, Like she lets other guys touch her, ALL I WANT IS WHAT SHOULD I DO IF SHE ISN’T AWARE OF HER ACTIONS

  13. I don’t know if she really cares about me, that situation that she gives more attention to a certain guy rather than me, that situation when she chose to come with her friend instead of coming with me, I don’t know if she really cares about me, that feeling I keep asking my self If she really knows what to do in a relationship, she did those to me one time but she just cant say no to other guy’s actions to her, Like she lets other guys touch her, ALL I WANT IS WHAT SHOULD I DO IF SHE ISN’T AWARE OF HER ACTIONS

  14. Hi Apollonian! My situation is quite unique. When I was at university I met a girl who showed a lot of interest in me. I meant it was evidedent. She asked for my number and I got her number as well and we started talking on phone. But I showed to much interest in her that she stopped picking my calls. I was calling her to many times. So I asked to her to meet. I expressed my feelings to her and then said no. ( I was not the best manifesto anyway). I noticed that I was slowly becoming obsessed with her so I stopped calling and texting. A friend of mine advised me to call her again and find out where we stood but she repeated the same answer. I divided to move on find a new girl, but I figured I needed to first forget about her and move on completely before started a new relationship. But since then I have not been in a relationship. A few weeks ago a decided it was time to find a new girl. But one thing that has bothered since meeting her is that she always find a way to come near me. At first I thought they were coincidences but after some months I figured to she was coin it on purpose. I moved to another city but when iam in the city she stays in we attend the same church. The church is so big that its impossible to meet everyone every Sunday, but she always finds a way to meet me. What do you think I should do?

    1. Hi Gift. Thank you for reading How to Make her Miss you. This is what happens with women, you might have been feeding her ego when you were obsessed with her, and now she wants that attention back. Maybe she thinks that if you see her you will reach out to her again and feed her ego.
      Bottom line… I would move on and start dating other girls. Learn from this experience. Get to know someone, don’t put them on a pedestal and continue to focus on your own life. Happiness comes from inside of you, not from someone else. If she winds up reaching out, great. Focus on why you got attached in the first place and work on that in the meantime. Find your hobbies, know your boundaries. Discover what you love and who you are even more.
      Wishing you the best
      Apollonia

  15. Hi appolonia.i beat my girlfriend and she pulled away since 2weeks now,i have apologize to her but she said no,but she is now texting me on whatsapp,what should I do?

    1. You beat your girlfriend? Meaning abused her? Then you should get help and stay away from her at the moment until you get help as NO ONE should lay their hands on a woman or anyone for that matter when it comes to relationships. Please do the right things and get help.

  16. A woman I have know for 3 years in a life wrote to me that I shock her. In the best possible way. I yeah her so much about people and love. She has lived so much of her life living in fesr. Especially, in getting close to people I am showing her a better way of living. I continue to help her grow. I am her back bone when she crumbles. J am her faith when she feels hopeless. Is this note her way of telling me she lives me? I have helped her and she has also said I saved her life

  17. Hi apollonia, i really appreciate your advice and I hope that this message can reach you. I’ve been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 1 and a half years, and things we going well. I’m still a high school student and she was my first love. I get it, high school relationships usually just end up separating, but I am really serious about this relationship. During our first year together, she always said that she wanted to marry me and be my wife, really loving and caring, as a lover who’s obsessed with me. But i was the one who is always sitting back and her doing most of the work like putting in effort to maintain our relationship, and I didn’t know that me being like this is wrong because I was inexperienced. As months past, she started to be less attentive, caring for me and many other minor things that made me felt that our relationship is falling apart while the distance between us is getting further. During this year (2020), I am being the best I could, improving and learning how to be a better man for her. But she compares me to another boy that she met and our friends that were couples, saying “look how sweet they are”, something like this. I know that the boy that she met was really making this distance longer, that’s why I really need your advice on how to get her heart back and someone that’ll miss me just like she used to be. She told me that she still loves me but in the same time saying that her heart is everywhere, and not completely with me. She also said that she realised our relationship is falling apart and is willing to give me her last chance to me to get her back. We are still together, if you were wondering. Dear apollonia, I really need your help and advices on how to win her heart back and eliminate the chance of the boy of getting her away from me. Our relationship is on the verge of breaking up, do have any advices on what I should do before I perform the no-contact with her. And thank you

  18. Hi apollonia, there’s this girl that I love we don’t talk face to face because of the distance between us but we know each other, I called her on phone I told her I love her she says “I am sorry I have a boyfriend” I don’t give up, I have been calling her but now she blacklist my number, please help I really love her and I want to marry her.

  19. guys please give me some hop advice,after she posted single status in social media, i ignored her about for 3 or 4 months,
    but i still love her and miss her.

    1. Hey Ismael. Thanks for taking the time to read How to make her miss you. I would suggest to keep working on yourself and falling in love with yourself and your life. Someone not capable of showing up for you and being there for you has nothing to do with you. Say NO to the people who show you they are not available or capable of matching your efforts so that the RIGHT people can come into your life. Make space for the right people. Let go and focus on building your self-love, self-worth. Because that comes from within. Not from other people.
      Best,
      Apollonia

  20. Hi apollonia,
    There’s a girl that we started off as friends but I fell head over heels. As of recent she has told me that I give her butterflies and has feelings for me that started a week ago however is in a relationship but has voiced to me that its kind of dead and is thinking of calling it quits. She has told me that even if she wasn’t in a relationship she doesn’t want to get into anything serious for years which I perceive as kind of a defensive mechanism.
    I am currently trying to remain distant and mysterious to get her to miss me and grow attraction. My problem is she constantly messages me on Facebook throughput the day which I haven’t been replying right away. I haven’t been messaging her first and I try and keep my replys short.
    Am I doing a good job this far? How do I respond so I dont seem like a cold hearted dick but also remain distant and mysterious? She eventually asks me if I’m mad or she will respect my decision to not talk to her and giving me my space. Not sure how to handle this last part.
    Ty for any help!

  21. Hey apollonia
    Actually I have lived with a girl for couple of days and we got too close and later she started distancing me and she became close to her Male friends . I felt she was ignoring me so I kept her at distance no calls , no texts and I even stopped speaking to her and now the fun part is she missed me for some days and now her Male friends are getting closer everyday and I think she isn’t even finding time to miss me . Can you please suggest me something

  22. Apollonia this sounds like some great advice and I will definently being doing exactly what you’ve stated in your tips, in fact I have done some with out even knowing and got the exact results you said would happen.. my girlfriend was an extreme alcoholic when we first met..I was there for her and I was assertive about her drinking and how it needed to stop, I let her know I would not tolerate her behavior with drinking and talking to other men,,she was extremely attracted to me at this point,we had a child together , and from that point on I held her to the highest regard I did whatever she said when she said it thinking that our love could never die and for me this was the case, 8 months pass our child is growing bigger every day and we struggle but we were in it together..we helped eachother we loved eachother and we were there for eachother. Eventually I feel the love and affection start to dwindle to almost nothing, she stops posting pictures on social media of all three of us and me completely she stops commenting on anything I post she completely stops acknowledging me all together..when I ask her why she has no answer other then she didn’t realize she was doing it and when I tell her I feel in my gut like that there is something wrong she assures me there is nothing to worry about at all..one week later an email pops up on our computer congratulating her on her new job.a job in her home town almost 200 miles away..when I asked she tried to take the computer..I was heart broken it was like my life was falling apart and our relationship was over..when we finally talk about it I find out that she had known about taking this job for months ..she never mentioned it one time ..I was devastated ..she then tells me that she’s moving back to her hometown in less then a week and taking our son but that she still wanted to be with me and her leaving wasn’t about leaving me or our relationship .she said she was afraid to tell me because she knew I would be mad and I must admit finding out 7 days before her and my child were leaving our home and the life we were creating made me mad ..but more sad then anything that I wasnt involved in this huge life decision that as she put it was to be if it our family so we could have two incomes ..as I started to put the pieces of this intricate puzzle together I began to wonder if what she was saying was true..considering we’ve had trust issues and problems with lying many times in the past..I couldn’t help but think she was seeing someone else or that she that she fell out of love with me but couldn’t admit it ..to this day she still says there’s no one else and that she loves me but has recently been treating me like I mean nothing to her..I’ve caught her deleting messages from guy friends..talking to other men while on family vacations ..while still completely denying she’s doing anything behind my back and I have nothing to worry about ..I want to believe her I really do but it’s hard..there have so other many red flags besides the ones I’ve stated ..for example she all of a sudden she’s “not really an affectionate” person and “doesn’t really like to cuddle “ when for almost 3 years it was her favorite thing to do. She didn’t care if I kissed her in front of people and now it’s the complete opposite , she has even stopped calling me “babes” which was the only thing she used to say to me when texting ,calling or talking in person when I asked about it she again “didn’t even realize it” ..a big one for me is I love you ..the i in front of love is important it shows that you really love the person deeply and is something we talked about in the beginning of our relationship and now it’s just love you..its devastating and I don’t know how to feel anymore ..everything I’ve stated started shortly before she moved 4 months ago and continues to get worse and worse..I see our relationship falling apart..I feel like I’ve completely pushed her away with my insecurities and by always needing reassurance that she still loves me but is it just me that pushed her away? Or could there be something she’s not telling me or admitting? Ive been told a million times others I need to just end things move on before she does. I’ve asked if she thought we should break up and the answer is always “no we’ve already been through to much together to just give up on eachother “ it confusing because all signs point to the opposite. I recently did in fact break up with her she immediately wanted to work things out I was assertive with how I wanted things to go and they happened for 2 days and it’s right back to where we were before.. I don’t know what to do so please help

  23. Hi ma’am
    Thanks for your post, it’s lovely
    But i have a question to ask
    I’m into a distance relationship with a girl I’ve never met but we’ve been for 2 yrs running…. I wanna know how to see if she really loves me that much and how to make her miss me more

  24. Hi Apollonia,
    I started dating this wonderful woman at the beginning of last summer. Things were going great, we were spending a lot of time together, and then boom–she stopped reaching out, wanting to spend time together, etc. She said she wanted to break up because she had a lot of uncertainty about her feelings towards me and it felt like she was trying to force herself to have feelings for me and it “just didn’t feel right”. A month and a half later, she wanted to get back together saying she “made a really big mistake” by breaking up with me. Well, after dating for 6 more months now, she said the same thing about wanting to break up and that her feelings for me fluctuates and she doesn’t see them getting any stronger. What should I do? Should I just move on or is there a chance? It’s hard to move on because I love her so much.

  25. I do not normally get involved in other’s personal business, however, this couple is an exception. I am writing for a friend of mine, Carlton. I am very worried about both him and his wife, Charlotte. Carlton recently left Charlotte, recently meaning the last 3 months or so for another woman. We live in a small town and I fear that once it becomes public about his affair he will face terrible shame. It is a surprise to the few of us who know of the affair. His wife, Charlotte adored her husband, Carlton. It is my understanding divorce papers have been filed. I do not know which of them filed for divorce. I feel this couple, my friends got off track and need to realize what all they have together. I worry about my friend, Carlton. The shame, humiliation and shunning he will face from cheating on Charlotte will be astronomical. I would like for him to rethink what he has done by bringing this affair between him and Charlotte. Carlton could not possibly love anyone more than he loves Charlotte. I fear he got wrapped up in the affair and lost sight of what he has in Charlotte. He will face terrible embarrassment, I wish to save my friend from this embarrassment. How can I help him to see what he has done is wrong? How can I help my friends? This woman who came between Carlton and Charlotte needs to go on about her business and leave Carlton alone. Carlton needs to remember the love and care he has for Charlotte. I hate, I mean hate to see Carlton and Charlotte to divorce. Please help them, help me to help them. Please help me to know how to bring my friends back together, to save Carlton from the shame and the hurt he will bring his family. His children and grandchildren will find humiliation, and extreme embarrassment in his decision. How can I help Carlton to see that his marriage is worth saving? I am hoping by posting this comment Carlton will read in black and white and rethink his actions. Concerned friend.

  26. I read your blog (very interesting btw) and I felt related in some way.
    Here’s the thing, I met a woman a couple of months ago in college and since then I’ve been totally on to her. We’ve had a couple of dates and texted almost every week. However, now that we’re trapped at home due to Covid-19, she didn’t reply to my last text message, in either WhatsApp or Ig. I’m afraid that I’m no longer important for her or that she might be overwhelmed of me. Also, even though we have a good relationship, I don’t know if she likes me in the same way I like her. I’ve tried to give her all kind of hints about my feelings, but I haven’t tell her yet what I truly want with her. Would you recommend to try again with another text? Maybe call her?
    Help me please, I truly like this girl.

    1. Hey Dylan, thank you for stopping by and commenting on how to make her miss you. So, a lot of people went into “fight or flight” mode because there is a virus going around and they are afraid that their loved ones could catch it or their lives have been flipped around. So no, you are not her top priority. She needs space to handle her life and make sure that her family is okay. She is also probably getting flooded with calls and texts from her family. Give her space.
      Focus on you. Post some motivational / inspiring/ light hearted posts on social media and just hang back.
      Focus on you. Do some work on yourself and work on not putting your self-esteem or validation on someone else. This is an AMAZING time for self-healing and gaining more confidence and love for yourself.
      I’d also suggest getting the friend zone no more product to help you get out of the friendzone.
      Wishing you the best 🙂
      Apollonia

  27. Hi Apollonia!
    I’m from India, she’s from Philippines. She said she wants to give our relationship a chance but she’s not ready.
    Now I wanna know how to make her miss me? Should I keep talking casually or not?

    1. Hi Vishesh. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on How to Make her Miss you. For right now give her space. She said she’s not ready, so let her get ready. Show that you respect yourself and you respect her time. Let her know that you appreciate her knowing where she’s at and being able to communicate that with you and that you will let her go to work on herself. Whenever she’s ready she can reach back out to you. This shows that you RESPECT yourself. and that you’re not sitting and waiting around. have boundaries and standards. I would also stay open to dating other women and not putting her as “the only one in the world” Just stay open to what happens.
      Wishing you the best,
      Apollonia

  28. Hi Appollonia,your blog it has really open up my mind and u are doing a great job, I need your advise, when we start a relationship everything was fine we had a happy moment through texting chatting ,voice calls even in person she used to be charming and romantic but at the moment she has changed she is not doing that anymore and when I text or call her sometimes she will respond to me after some hours and give an excuse to say she was busy.what can I do I have missed the way our relationship was.even though she still loves me but there is a distance being creating between us because she is not the same person I meet at first she has changed. Help plz

    1. Hey Isaac, thank you for commenting on how to make her miss you. I would suggest pulling back here. Just pull back and give her space. We’re in panic mode and we’re messaging her too much and REACTING in FEAR and she can feel it.
      Get back to focusing on your life and let her initiate. I would suggest booking a coaching session and I can help further.
      https://www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching/
      Wishing you the best,
      Apollonia

  29. Hi Apollonia,

    A fan from Africa, Nigeria precisely.

    Thanks for your exceptional relationship advice. I came across your blog online and I find it very interesting to read about.

    Thank you for the wonderful service.

    So I met this sweet desirable girl, she’s my neighbors childhood girlfriend who came to visit her during this lockdown. I didn’t actually asked her out. We just met and liked each other & started having multiple sex but just after I contacted gonorrhea (STD) from her, and I told her about it… So since then she has been acting so strange & not want to spend quality time with me like we used to!

    I still love her I don’t know what to do now because she’s ignoring me and doesn’t want to speak nor spend more time with me, she also looks at me now as nobody!

    Please I need an advice what next steps I can take?

    1. Hi There,

      Sorry to hear this and I know its situation is tough. Right now she is embarrassed so just go with the flow and be positive around her. After a while, she will warm up to you. Also, moving forward to practice safe sex. Thank you for your comment on how to make her miss you.

      Best,
      Apollonia

  30. Hello Apollonia,

    I really enjoy your material!

    I recently met this girl a couple of months ago through a mutual friend. Things were off to a great start! We started talking, hung out a lot, and did certain things, but then things started to wither. She became distant, withdrawn, and didn’t really have any emotion when I would try to make her feel special. After about 3 months I asked her where we stood because I was concerned and that’s when she said that she thinks we should be friends “for right now”.

    At the beginning she said that she “didn’t want to rush into anything” and wanted to “take things slow” because she doesn’t know that the future holds. She’s mentioned how she is close minded and she has noticed she has been in a “negative” state of mind for the past couple years. She mentioned that she wanted to be there for me and work on our common goals, but she needs to work on herself to be that “stable resource”.

    The thing I’m most confused about is that she is still giving me signs that she is really interested in me and likes me. I understand that she is looking to work on herself. I’m afraid I may have come off too “pushy”, so I’ve been sitting back and letting her come to me so to speak, so that she can talk about things when she is ready.

    Any suggestions on what I could do to make things better?

    Thanks!

  31. Hi Apollonia,

    I appreciate your advice and being someone people can go to when in need of help. I’ve been dealing with this girl for over 2 years now. We first started out as friends and it later got intimate and slowly got deeper. We ended up falling off 2 times a few months a piece over small issues and she ended up coming back around. She constantly says she misses me and always bringing up the old memories but I made a mistake by trying to prove and tell her she was the only one I was interested and focused Trying to be with. Although it sounded good to say at the moment, I realized it was to early and I should have played my words differently. We were in contact for about a week with her texting and calling me but not making myself to available too her. The last thing she said was I miss you and I want to see you and when I asked when she said she didn’t know. I then asked what her schedule was looking like and didn’t hear anything back. It was about a week ago since hearing from her and I decided to just keep my distance until she reached out to me again. What steps do you think would be proper for this situation and how should I carry things when she reaches back out again as I know she will.

    Thanks in advance!

  32. Hello mam
    I am in love with woman having kids but single her fiance and she lives in same house but they are just living ordinary life. It’s been two years we both are connected with each other mentally physically she share her every problem with every moment with me but suddenly I started having fear that she may leave me for guy with whom she living with and since after I can not sleep. I discussed my problem to her that I can’t sleep but I didn’t tell her why? and then after she suddenly stopped talking to me ignoring me saying I need better person then her and I must go and find someone else. I can’t understand what makes her think like that I love her I left my family and country for her and residing in her country now. What should I do to get her back plz guide

  33. I recently went on a first date with this girl and it went very well. We ended up coming back to my house and made out “watching Netflix” for a good while. I took her hope and she was very excited to see me again. Fast forward 2 days and now she “isn’t ready for a relationship like she thought she was”. I will be the first to admit I was probably too clingy and that did not help my cause. I told her that I understand etc.. what should I do next or am I screwed?

  34. I’m 19 years old and I been with my girlfriend since 7th grade but When we was together I tended to get upset at her about things she do and neglect her when I was mad about other things and then she started acting really nonchalant towards me so I broke up with her and ever since she would never take me back, she checked on me once to see if I was okay and I told her yeah but after that she has not texted me first and last time I texted her she got mad at me and told me to leave her and her whole family alone and blocked me I’ve been trying to right my wrongs and try to keep her off my mind but everytime I think of her it just brings me down and I’m trying to get her back as soon as possible because I leave for college in August, what should I do, I don’t want her to be with somebody else

    1. Hi Rasheed,
      Thank you for your email and for sharing a little bit of your story with us.
      We never stop learning, it is from our life experiences and how we deal with them that our growth happens. Don’t let your fears take over and enjoy your journey, anything that is meant to happen will.
      Please continue to watch our youtube videos, we have a lot of valuable content you will find very helpful.
      wishing you the best of luck.

    1. Hi Charlie,

      thank you so much for reading our blog and your feedback, we deeply appreciate it.
      Best,
      Apollonia’s team

  35. Hello apollonia what’s good?

    Yea there is this girl we have been friends I loved her right from high school but not that close but we do talk well..After high school now in different universities we both met at the streets cos our homes are not that far from each other..we greeted from that day onward we started seeing each other almost everyday at her mum store going errands together doing things together until she says anytime I’m not around she does miss me..there was a day we were both talking about our future then she asked who do I love?and as the shy type didn’t say anything cos she is the one I truly love right from high school..she kept on asking the question so I said I will tell her but not now maybe later…until we both went to her house for some errands then she asked me the same question again so I had to reply her..she smiled and said I don’t know what to say..she told me all about her past…guys letting her down. .and she almost committing suicide so on..and she said we should only be fuck buddies…didn’t say anything….after that day things went well for both of us until the 3rd week…we started arguing she telling me i send annoying and rude text to her which i dont even know when..she ignored me for a week I told a friend about it he helped me asked her what is going on and she texted him that I do abuse her with her past and I have never did that to her i was juz confused since then.. so I texted her that I can’t force her into a relationship that I would leave…so she said she didn’t mean it that everything happened too fast that anytime she wants to clear her head I do come back again..so she said I should give her space which I did two weeks later we started chatting normal seeing each other and then suddenly after a week in d middle of a conversation she said I have started becoming rude and will start ignoring me..I sent her messages upon messages which I regretted cos I shouldn’t have…or maybe she was just testing me… after a month she said we should only be just friends nothing more cos I have helped her in the past…and she still loves me but she won’t say it she hides the feeling when we texting but not when we seeing face to face…she called me twice for some favours which I helped her tho..one of dem was going to d mart to get things then she saw some guy friends talking to them holding hands..i don’t know maybe she is making me feel jealous or she doesn’t feel anything for me again cos of fights we have had in d past..so what should I do I still love her and she still do..but she is scared of what happened to her in past relationships and she said she doesn’t listen to sorry anymore she tired of hearing it from guys…and I don’t know maybe she is just using me or something…should i do no contact or move on?..hope you understand apollonia..please help

    1. Hello Tom, thank you for reading “How To Make Her Miss You! 6 Tips To Get Results!” In order to get advice pertaining to your situation, I would encourage you to book a coaching session with her so she can help. Here are the links with more information. https://www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching/

      Apollonia carefully crafted her products that address a multitude of subjects which you may find helpful as well: https://www.apolloniaponti.com/products/

      If finances are an issue, Apollonia provides free content and I know you can find information that will help. 🙂 https://www.apolloniaponti.com/blog/ and https://www.youtube.com/c/ApolloniaPonti
      Take care and best of luck!

  36. Hi My Name Is Jose Aguila I Need Your Advice My Girl Friend Has 3 Kids 2 Boys And 1 Girl She’s 26 Years Old And Her 2 Sons Is ( 1) 15 Years Old And The Other IS 23 Years Old She Was In A Abusive Relationship The Kids Father HE USE TO HIT HER AND MENTALLY ABUSE HER. We Felt In Love We Been Together For Almost 5 Years We Go Out We Spend Romantic Time Together . But My Mistake Is That Im Always Been Available I Kind Of Spoild Her For Example If She Need Something She. Always Got It Her Mother Gave Her A Car Which Was Her Mothers . In The Begining We Was Spending Time Together Going To The Beach And Cruising To. But Now She Got
    SO OBBSESSED
    With The Car. . When Ever I Asked Her Lets
    Spend Time. Together She Goes Out With Her Family
    Or Spend Time With Her Kids Which
    Is Find Because I Always
    Told Her That Her Kids Comes First . And That Is True . But She Seems To Put Me In The Bottom
    Of The Priority List At Times I Mite Be Wrong But It Seems That She’s Acting
    Is If. I Need Her Because She Has A Car And I Dont I Said To Her That WEe Need To Spend Time Together She Said Dont Worry I’Ll. Figure Something Out For Us. To Do So. But Still She Hasnt. Taking The Initiative. Yet. She Saids To Me That. She. Loves MEe Deeply And I Feel The Same Way. I Know She Does I Feel. That Maybe Im Beeing To Available To Need At Times But I Gave Her. Space. I won’t See Her For 2 OR 3 Days In Your. Opinion Do. You. Think I Did
    it Right Do You. Thimk She’ll Will Be Thinking Of Me Would. That Help Our Relationship
    . I Need Your. Opinion . Your Advice What Should . I Do I Dont Want To Lose Her.

    1. Hello Jose! Thank you for reading “How To Make Her Miss You! 6 Tips To Get Results!” In order to get advice pertaining to your situation, I would encourage you to book a coaching session with her so she can help. Here are the links with more information. https://www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching/

      Apollonia carefully crafted her products that address a multitude of subjects which you may find helpful as well: https://www.apolloniaponti.com/products/

      If finances are an issue, Apollonia provides free content and I know you can find information that will help. 🙂 https://www.apolloniaponti.com/blog/ and https://www.youtube.com/c/ApolloniaPonti
      Take care and best of luck!

  37. So now I have my ex begging for me back and he tells me he loves me still and all that. I told him that I still love him and I never stopped, but this time I’d like things to be different and he needs to change some things like don’t give up on his future schooling dreams like he usually does and to treat me better than he did before. Does it sound like I’m doing it right? I also told him that I don’t want the label yet until he can prove to me that he is worthy of my time. He has told me that he is committed to changing and to do anything it takes for me to forgive him ‘one day’. I hope I’m not pushing him away..for recommendation ( templeofanswer@hotmail. co.uk ) – Krystal

    1. Hello Krystal! Thank you so much for reaching out and supporting us! Here’s a video you might find helpful: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PBpzWtY5rjc
      If you’re interested in some individualized guidance, here’s the link to book a private session as Apollonia would need more details and to make time in her schedule; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching/ 
      Best of luck and take care!

  38. My problem is I work with this girl and I have to interact. Before she was touching me a lot and I was I a relationship but then for two months a trainee came along and I don’t know what the hell was said but she is now distant.

    Worse of all I suspect he likes her and it’s like the universe aligned to have them together same shifts and a company event. What do I do this woman is amazing. She would contact me personally but now only in our professional group.

    How can I turn this around?

    What I’ve done do far is I’ve aired my feelings of wanting to be included more and I had an opportunity to impress so I took it. We seem to laugh and stuff but conversation is still a bit awkward.

    Thank you

    Jon

    1. Hi John! Thank you for reading, “How To Make Her Miss You! 6 Tips To Get Results!” If you’re interested in some individual guidance, please book a private session through the link below as Apollonia would need to make time in her schedule to gather more details from your; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching/ 
      The link will provide information on the different styles and rates for coaching sessions with a step by step breakdown of what to expect.
      Best of luck and take care!

  39. How do I back away if she’s my boss. You mentioned in your YouTube video to do 30 days but what if I report to her everyday?

  40. Hi apollonia my girlfriend said she needs space because of my insecurities but she keeps on saying she won’t replace me and she loves all she ask is her own time and for me to change this behavior

    1. Hi Moj,
      I know it’s really hard right now but you need to work on your insecurities to really get better in your relationship. If you are wondering how to make her miss you it’s important you become happy with you and work on those things. Can you do this?
      Best,
      Apollonia

  41. Hi Apollonia,

    I very much enjoy your tips. I am in the process of finalizing my divorce, i.e., hopefully by October 30th. My wife filed April 2020.

    I started dating in end of July and very soon met various women (about 9) in Houston. However, I have no chemistry with any of them. I did meet this woman from Denver online. She visited me in Houston and we connected right away. We spent a week together on the first date in Houston at the of August. I then visited her in Denver for a few days. On the third date, we spent a week at the Keys mid to late September. Although we have only known each other for over a month, we both felt like we knew each other for over a year. We are very attracted to each other physically. We also connected well when we are together.

    We both have kids and have joint custody. We have them every other week. We agreed to sync up the weeks when we would have our kids so that we could maximize our visits.

    She encouraged me to date other women the week (10/05-10/09) when she’ll be in Mexico visiting her friends. So, I thought she would be okay. Everything was going fine until I asked her about scheduling our next get together (around 10/16). She said she wanted to wait and see how things go with me seeing other women this week (10/05-10/09). She said that until she sees that I’m sure of this relationship and all in, we have no option but to slow it down. I asked her if she were all in. She said that she isn’t sure because I wasn’t sure.

    So, I cancelled all of my dates with other women this week because I don’t want to lose her. When she was in Mexico, she would call me everyday but very quick calls on her drive somewhere. I felt that she was not giving me the attention that she used to give me.

    She is back now in Colorado because of the hurricane. I asked her if I could see her tonight. She declined because she is exhausted and that she has friends coming over Friday from California and then her brother is coming on October 17th. She mentioned that she needs to think about everything and that she needs to have her thoughts in order. I told her that’s fine but to give me ample time to buy the airfare tickets before they go up.

    I have told her that I miss her but I don’t see any reciprocity. She texted me this morning but I haven’t responded.

    I do like her a lot but I think I’ll continue messaging other women. Any advice?

    Thank you.

  42. Hi Apollonia,
    I very much enjoy your tips. I am in the process of finalizing my divorce, i.e., hopefully by October 30th. My wife filed April 2020.
    I started dating in end of July and very soon met various women (about 9) in Houston. However, I have no chemistry with any of them. I did meet this woman from Denver online. She visited me in Houston and we connected right away. We spent a week together on the first date in Houston at the end of August. I then visited her in Denver for a few days. On the third date, we spent a week at the Keys mid to late September. Although we have only known each other for over a month, we both felt like we knew each other for over a year. We are very attracted to each other physically. We also connected well when we are together. We are very comfortable with each other.

    We both have kids and have joint custody. We have them every other week. We agreed to sync up the weeks when we would have our kids so that we could maximize our visits.

    She was going to be in Mexico visiting her friends the week (10/05-10/09). So, she encouraged me to date other women during that week. So, I thought she would be okay. Everything was going fine until I asked her about scheduling our next get together (around 10/16). All of a sudden, she said she wanted to wait and see how things go with me seeing other women this week (10/05-10/09). She said that until she sees that I’m sure of this relationship and all in, we have no option but to slow it down. I asked her if she were all in. She said that she isn’t sure because I wasn’t sure. This new revelation about her feeling regarding me seeing other women while seeing her threw me for a loop. (I don’t want to keep dating other women and end up losing her. But she told me not to operate out of fear).

    So, I cancelled all of my dates with other women this week because I don’t want to lose her. When she was in Mexico, she would call me every day but they were very quick calls on her drive somewhere. I felt that she was not giving me the attention that she used to give me.

    She is back now in Colorado because of the hurricane. I asked her if I could see her tonight. She declined because she is exhausted and that she has friends coming over Friday from California and then her brother is coming from overseas on October 17th. She mentioned that she needs to think about everything and that she needs to have her thoughts in order. I told her that’s fine but to give me ample time to buy the airfare tickets before they go up.

    I have told her that I miss her but I don’t see any reciprocity recently. She texted me this morning to hold off buying the tickets until she has had time to think, but I haven’t responded.

    I do like her a lot but I think I’ll continue messaging other women. Any advice?

    Thank you.

  43. Hi Appolonia, I was dating this girl couple of months ago, then she started to become uninterested. I kept messaging her and calling her before, i know that maybe she got annoyed with me for giving too much attention, and also she said that she’s been busy. Then 2 days ago i decided to stop messaging her to make her miss me. Will this work?

    1. Ghian,
      Showing her that you have other priorities in your life is important. Also, taking a step back and letting her come to you will help.

  44. This is undoubtedly the best thing that I’ve come across today in the internet. It was a long time that I have been thinking on this topic but I couldn’t satiate my quench for knowledge through any post that I read. However, today that I came across your article, I seem to have learnt a lot and I have also gained enough knowledge on this topic. Thanks once again.

    1. Hey Gopi! Thank you for reading How to Make Her Miss You! 6 Tips to Get Results!
      We greatly appreciate your feedback and are so happy you are getting a lot from reading my blog posts.
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  45. Hello.
    Just read your article. It is genuinely correct.

    I myself standing in the same situation. Recently we were fights ending up saying thins that we would said to each other when we are sane. I am already in a long distance relationship. Although we both are from same field that too on same level. But we are 200 miles apart. Our love is genuine. That we both believe. I understand her mood, pain, situation that too at such distance. And she does the same too. But recently we had a fight and she asked me to give her space. Space over anything, just like you mentioned that, “I’ll call whenever I am free” etc. I trust her. She is faithful in the relationship. I made a mistake Checking on her, but she was clean. Yes we both love each other that is why we both have decided that we should give our relationship one more shot. I don’t want her to find peace on someone else where the kind of happiness and peace she is finding in me right now. She just gave me her life goals and showed me her likes and dislikes. Even I have it. And I am working over for it too. But the way we used to communicate earlier, now we are not. It’s like that she is bossing over this relationship.
    I seek your advice in order to save and maintain this lovely bond we have.
    Please, help me by sharing some of your points on which I could work upon and save our love.

    Thank you.

    1. Hi Aakash,
      Thank you for your comment on how to make her miss your article. I would have to know more details about your situation. I would suggest watching my youtube channel Apollonia Ponti or booking a coaching session with our team. 🙂
      Best,
      Team

  46. Hi
    My girl friend has blocked me after a terrible fight, should i move forward or wait for her to come back again we had relation since last 1 and half years

  47. My girlfriend and I have been dating for roughly 3 months. We met at my work; she was a customer and would always wait for me to help her. After a few months of this she called me at work and asked me for my number. We then started going out and we got really serious. We fell in love and we had no problem saying that and expressing that with one another. Then about a month ago she grew very distant and short in her responses with me. She eventually apologized and said that she has family/work drama that she’s dealing with but she won’t communicate with me what that drama is. I offered myself up many times to be there to support and she continued with the short responses. For Christmas I got her a gift involving her taking time off for work (a weekend trip to get away from it all). She called me and expressed that she was angry that I went to her work to have them help me schedule her time off. The intention was that it would be all set to go and all we’d have to do is pack up and go. She said in the very brief phone call that she thinks it’s best that we don’t talk for a while. What should I do in the meantime to continue to support her but at the same time take care of myself and my needs? I still love this woman but I am more confused than anything as to why she started closing me out of her life and still maintained contact with me up until the phone call about her work. Any thoughts/advice?

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