“You’re never going to get a hot girl because you’re short!” “Girls don’t like short guys!”
It’s about time a woman puts these thoughts to rest for you guys! I am not saying that 100% of women don’t want a tall guy, ‘cause to tell you the truth, I was once like that too. But this really isn’t the case. So many men think that they are short when they’re actually an average height. So if you still don’t believe me, let’s chat about the question, “Do girls like tall guys?”
Let’s start off clear with one another. I’m going to give you some statistics here. Did you know that only about 13% of the American population is comprised of tall men? So, if you’re one to say, “Oh, I’m a short guy and I’m never gonna get a girl,” or “All women love tall men,” then that’s a preconceived notion. Think about it: only 13% of men are 6 feet and taller in the United States. Clearly, if factual data is what gets to you, you can see that women don’t only love tall guys. But if you still are unconvinced, I’m gonna give you some clarity more around this topic.
Why Do Girls Like Tall Guys: The REAL Answer:
Now, I can tell you right off the bat that a woman doesn’t mind if a man is short. What she does mind is if he has no confidence, if he is someone she can walk all over, if he has no dignity and no purpose, if he is a man with no self-respect, a man that doesn’t know how to lay down boundaries, a man that doesn’t have his own values…
There’s so much more to it than his height! If a woman was only attracted to tall men, then it would be harder for her to even find someone, because who’s to say these tall men have a sense of purpose and can offer a sustainable relationship? I remember dating tall men and they had nothing to offer so I dumped them early on. Just because a man is tall does not mean he is going to get in a relationship with a woman. So instead of whether or not he’s a tall guy, It’s about how a man carries himself.
When you’re a man that’s thinking that, “Oh, I’m short, and I won’t get a woman,” it’s just an excuse. You’re already setting yourself up to lose. Holding on to this mindset is accepting that you will lose and you’re encouraging failure. Be careful with allowing yourselt to think, “Oh, I’m too short, I’m not gonna find a woman. It’s hard for me to get a girl because I’m short.”
This shows a lot of securities and what others like to call “beta male qualities.” I hate to compare beta male and alpha male, saying that being an alpha is superior, because I don’t think that being a beta male and alpha male is bad or good. What I do think is that you have to have the right dose of each of them. The beta male comes when it’s relationship. Think openness, vulnerability, communication… and the alpha male comes when you’re setting standards, seduction, your self-image, and how you carry yourself. It’s the same thing with women – an alpha woman and a beta woman — masculine energy and feminine energy.
When it comes to attraction, a woman is not attracted to a man that looks like he is lacking in his life. I mean that he feels that he’s not good enough because he’s short, that he’s not good enough because he doesn’t have confidence. If you don’t have self-confidence and a pride in yourself from within, a woman is going to be able to feel this. She might not know exactly what it is and exactly why she’s not attracted to you, but it’s all an energy, and that’s exactly what she’s gonna pick up from you.
Instead of thinking about why do girls like tall guys, or what height is considered to be tall, I want you to think about this: What encourages you? What encourages you in your life to really feel confident? Start doing those things. Maybe it’s taking a Jiu-Jitsu class, playing basketball, playing football etc. What encourages you to do those things?
Why Do Women Like Tall Men: This Is A M
Surround yourself with friends that bring you up and the ones you can learn to be more confident around. Go out there and meet people and go to seminars to meet like-minded individuals. There are so many things that you can do to cultivate good relationships with people that are gonna keep you thriving! When you do this, you start to see qualities that work for other individuals and you can learn so much from this.
If you have a lack of confidence because you’re short and you’re worried you’re not gonna be desirable to a woman, then that means that you don’t have a lot of self-esteem, that you don’t have a lot of confidence, and you’re allowing yourself to live in a form of lack. Change that, because your mindset has a lot to do with the way you look at life, and what (and who) you attract. If you want to attract a hot woman you have to come from an abundance mindset. It’s about how you position yourself to a woman, how you show up as a man in front of her, and how you add value to your own life so she can see what value you have to offer her. The same thing goes vice versa; she should be able to offer you somethieng as well.
The reason why women are initially attracted to tall men is because they have a strong presence about them. It can come off masculine to a woman and this is why she is attracted to this. It starts there but if the man has nothing to offer, then it’ll quickly fizzle. Once again, just because someone is tall, it does not mean he is confident. When a woman starts to get to know a man she makes the decision off of how he makes her feel. This grows in time and the way you carry yourself is what will have one of the biggest impacts. If you come from a place of lack instead of a place from abundance then a woman will figure this out and start to see you in a different light. I made a seminar called Master your Confidence Audio Seminar that I encourage you to invest in. This will help you tremendously!
Tall guys vs short guys: 3 Tips!
So you’re a man that perhaps is not the tallest and you’re wondering how you can stand out from tall men. Here are some tips to do so.
Dress the part:
There is something very attractive about a man that can be very presentable to a woman’s eye. This does not mean you have to be flashy and wear high price ticket items but the best thing you can do here is be clean cut and well put together.
Be unapologetically honest:
This is about being honest and keeping up with the witty banter with a woman. Sometimes men are too shy to say what’s on their mind but when they do in a respectful manner, it shows the woman he isn’t afraid to go after what he wants.
Stop thinking less of yourself:
Height does not define you as a person and if you think it does, then you have to change this and master your confidence. As I said above, a women can feel this. When you don’t have the confidence you need, you will easily put the woman you like on a pedestal.
Find something you’re passionate about:
When a man is happy in his life and going after his goals in life with a purpose, it shows a woman a level of stability that you have within yourself. The right woman will appreciate this more then you just being tall!
Lastly, since I started with a statistic I want to end it with another dose of reality. There are many women out there that were young or young minded once and wanted a tall man but then realized that they were going after something that was not going to offer them true love. They were getting superficial things. Because this happens, women may go through heartbreak and become more realistic about what is truly going to make them happy. An honest, trustworthy man with solid confidence and dignity will be the one she chooses. So stop wasting your time wondering if girls like short guys because there is one thing I know as a woman that’s for sure… There are a lot more important things than a guy’s height when it comes to a lasting relationship!
Apollonia Ponti, an international certified coach and founder of apolloniaponti.com. She works with men to attract the woman they desire, build confidence, master their attraction skills and helps rebuild relationships.
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