7 Signs She Loves You!

signs she loves you in a carHow can you know if a woman is in love with you? There are many different ways to respond to this question but the length of your relationship is going to be the determining factor. First of all, it’s possible that you’ve just met a woman that you really like and you’d like to know if she feels the same way. The other possibility is that you’ve known each other for years and you’d like to know whether or not she’s still in love with you. In this article, I’ve decided to explore the answer to your burning question and reveal the telltale signs she loves you.

In this piece, I am going to explain female psychology and the feelings that your significant other or crush is experiencing. I have a pretty good idea of what questions are on your mind because for over ten years now I’ve been receiving messages from men in the same shoes as you every day. So if you’re wondering about these questions, you’re in luck: What are the signs that show that a woman is in truly in love? How do you know if your relationship is solid and that you can trust her? What are the best tips for deciphering what she’s feeling and figuring out whether or not she’s crazy about you?

Throughout this article, I’ll reveal what you need to know, what makes all the difference, and how to recognize the behavior of a woman in love. You will learn important signs (that are often well known) but you will also learn to recognize subconscious actions that a woman does when she’s invested in a relationship, when she has strong feelings for you, and when she is feeling happy and satisfied. Let’s not forget that the goal is to solidify the relationship regardless of what stage it is in, and to provide you with the maximum amount of happiness.

Even though sometimes the relationship isn’t very clear, there are some telltale signs that can help you feel more reassured. When you become aware of them, it becomes easier to maintain your self-control and not give in to panic or fear of losing her.

Of course, if you have any questions you can always write them in the comments section below and I would be more than happy to personally reply to you.

The most important signs she is in love:

There are 7 important hints and signs she loves you, these are:

  1. A woman in love is happy and she glows
  2. She spends time with you and wants to see you
  3. You have a powerful effect on her
  4. She includes you in her life
  5. She’s always focused on you
  6. You’re the apple of her eye
  7. She’s afraid of losing you

If you want to know more about these signs, then continue to read below!

1. A woman in love is happy and she glows

signs she loves you - outdoorsThe first thing I’d like to talk about when it comes to a woman’s love and emotions is her wellbeing and the happiness she feels on a daily basis. I can guarantee that if your girlfriend or wife is radiant then she’s feeling fulfilling and is enjoying life every day. If this is the case you don’t even need to look for more signs she loves you because it’s clear that she’s head over heels in love!

I know that this isn’t always that straightforward because sometimes your partner has a reserved personality, who doesn’t reveal what she’s feeling, and sometimes you might even be with someone who is pretending to be happy. If you take a closer look at what she’s saying, her gestures and her attitude, then you will see when she’s truly feeling good and acting natural, and when she’s playing a role. All women in love feel good when they’re close to their partners, and they have a special energy. It isn’t easy to describe but if I had to try to paint a picture, it would look something like this:

– She’s tender
– She’s patient
– She’s always smiling
– She puts things into perspective
– She feels alive and satisfied, which is the BIGGEST sign that she’s in love

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If I had to take it a step further, I would say that instead of asking, “Alex, do you think that she’s still really into me? What are the signs of a woman in love?” You should focus on her happiness and ask, “Is she happy being with me?”
There is no better way to keep her by your side than by providing her with joy, laughter, special moments spent together, complicity, and all the elements that are crucial to a couple’s happiness. If this is the case, then you are the ideal partner and have no reason to worry about what she’s feeling!

2. She spends time with you and wants to see you

When she is in love, the second indicator comes in the form of the time that she decides to spend with you and how much she invests in the relationship.
I know that this sounds obvious but in all honesty, when I started doing this work in 2007, I realized the most important resource we have as human beings are time and the amount of liberty we have. Women would have no desire to spend their time and energy on a man for whom they don’t feel anything.

I, therefore, encourage you to be confident and stay positive when you have a woman that makes an effort to be by your side or to have the opportunity to further seduce you!
I’m even going to take it a step further and say that one of the biggest signs a girl loves you is when she accepts all of your invitations to spend time together, even if it’s for simple things. This is huge because the more time you spend together, the more you’re able to show all your good sides.
This doesn’t mean that you should constantly be proposing things to do because you don’t want to be clingy, but when you can see that she’s become invested in the relationship and would like to see you, it is highly likely that she’s becoming very attached.

You don’t need to look at the blatantly obvious or ‘grandiose’ side of things to make sure that she is in love. This piece of advice is important because as human beings we like to hold on to a bit of magic in love, and this allows us to ignore the aspects of daily life… which are nevertheless very important.

I want to stress this point because it can easily be misinterpreted. What I want you to take from the is that you can organize an incredible weekend trip and she’ll, of course, be happy and look at you with love in her eyes. That said, make sure you don’t neglect your every day lives because with daily, small gestures, you’re going to reinforce her feelings for you and you’ll begin seeing more signs she loves you.

3. You have a powerful effect on her

I often talk about seduction as something that involves power play where both the men and the woman are always interconnected. What I mean by that is that it’s of utmost importance to hold on to the notion of attraction throughout the discovery phase and throughout the relationship.

If you feel like your girlfriend or wife responds to your gestures and she’s emotionally invested in the relationship (whether or not you live together), then she has very strong feelings for you.

For example, if you put a little distance between you and in turn she gets closer and wants to invest more, it means that subconsciously she has a fear of losing you. This is how you can test how attached she is to you. Just be careful to never cross the line because it can get out of control very quickly and you risk falling into emotional dependence, needing her to constantly prove her feelings for you.

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You should also keep in mind that becoming too distant can turn around and bite you. The goal is to stay within reason so that you don’t make her unhappy. It’s not a game or a test to see if she loves you!

4. She includes you in her life!

I must admit, this one was a big surprise for me and it was one of the biggest lessons I learned from my experience in coaching women.

I have come to understand that when they love a man when they’re under his spell or even when it’s just the first days of the relationship, they don’t hesitate before integrating him into their life.

So if you’ve met someone who regularly puts you first, who doesn’t keep you away from her friends, who shares her passions with you, it means that you’re on the right track! Keep an eye out for this sign because it’s particularly telling and can help you evaluate how she feels about you.

After all when you really think about it, if she’s welcoming you into her personal life, you can take it as an excellent way to ease your doubts and anxieties about losing her. If this is how she’s acting, it actually means that the relationship is evolving and you are in the process of earning her trust as her feelings for you increase.

When a woman is in love, she is particularly focused on her partner.

5, She’s always focused on you

To go even further than the previous sign that she loves you, keep in mind that a woman has a hard time controlling her emotions when she feels a strong attraction and feelings for someone. So she will begin to show signs of a small scale emotional obsession and her goal will be to fill your life with joy.

It can be with a gift, special attention, an offer to give you a massage, or something that she says that boosts your ego, and you will be in the spotlight because she will be fully invested in the relationship.

When a girl is in love, there are telltale signs. After reading many different books on the differences between men and women, all authors (that base their work on scientific studies) focus on the fact that women communicate more through emotions.

Love, at first sight, is still an emotion so it’s hard to handle, and at one point she might want to devote herself to you completely. Don’t be frightened; this is just a sign that she is in love with you and that you are important to her.

This is one of the easiest ways to identify a woman in love. If you ever feel like it’s a bit too much for you to handle, you can tell her that it’s going too far and that she needs to focus a bit more on herself. Finding a happy medium in love is a delicate matter but with proper communication, you’ll be able to find a more balanced relationship.

6. You’re the apple of her eye

There is another sign that she loves you that I’ve come to understand throughout my coaching experience. You may experience a form of jealousy that can arise as a result her past, the men she’s been involved with, and all of the unpleasant situations she’s been faced with.

In coaching two very different men, I came to the realization that a woman in love will know how to protect you from that.
I was helping Patrick save his relationship and he was with a woman who understood where he was coming from. He had asked her to no longer talk about the past because it made him uncomfortable. From that moment on, she knew how to protect him and show him how important he was to her on a daily basis, and their relationship was able to blossom. The past was no longer of any importance because they didn’t discuss it anymore!

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And then there was Thibault. A man that lived in Belgium that needed help getting his message across. Each time he saw the woman he was dating, she would talk about the men that came on to her, the gifts that she would receive from them, and she would even talk about the things she had experienced with her exes.

She wasn’t able to change and show him how much she cared for him, and she ended up losing Thibault. I’m sharing this story with you to illustrate how a woman in love knows how to adapt her behavior and avoid doing anything that would cause you to be uncomfortable in any way. Under these circumstances, there is no need to ask yourself is she in love with me or what kind of behavior proves that she has deep feelings… The answer is blatantly clear if she’s protecting you and avoiding unnecessary disputes!

7. She’s afraid of losing you

The seventh and last sign she loves you is directly related to emotional dependence. This sign could be perceived as something negative but as we are talking about signs she loves you, we are going to consider it as a positive thing.

A woman that is very much in love would logically fear to lose her man, and this doesn’t necessarily have to have a negative effect on your relationship. If you enjoy being together and she has strong feelings for you, it’s normal that she would make a comment if you spend time with too many women or if you don’t give her much attention.

Some jealous comments or behaviors are actually signs of love that is strong and are therefore positive. If you feel that it’s going too far then you can mention it to her, and she should be able to take a look at her behavior and be more in control of it.

Bonus: When she’s in love she has an attitude!

It’s common knowledge that men prefer a woman with a bit of an attitude! I have to admit that I wasn’t really sure how I should title this last part, but I decided to just be straightforward about it. When a woman is nagging you, critiquing your attitude time and time again, or telling you that you should be more invested in the relationship, well, then I think it’s safe to say that she’s in love with you.

It is often said that there is nothing worse than ignorance and I completely agree with this idea. A woman in love is a woman that gives you attention, even when it comes to calling you out on little things that you might think are insignificant.

Let’s just say that you should accept this type of behavior as long as she doesn’t go overboard and as long as your relationship remains fulfilling because, in my opinion, it’s one of the biggest signs a woman loves a man.
You now know all of the biggest signs that a woman is happy and in love. Being aware of her love is one thing, but keep something in mind, Gentlemen. If you’ve successfully made her fall in love with you, be careful to not break her heart because once it’s broken, it’s hard to put the pieces back together.

Be a good partner to her and focus on the happiness that both of you can share.

If you have any questions or if you’d like to share your story in the comments section, go ahead!
I wish you nothing but the best.

Your Coach,
Apollonia Ponti, your coach for knowing how to recognize the signs she loves you

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  1. Hi Apollonia,
    what advice do you have for a guy who at 48 has never been on a date? I [literally] have never kissed, held hands or been on a date. Women my age aren’t interested (at all) because I have zero dating experience, so my only [faint] hope is to find someone younger. Is it even worth trying? Or should I just forget it and accept that it’s too late.
    Thanks, Mike


    1. Never think it’s too late. Mike, you have to put yourself out there and really encourage yourself to learn from possible mistakes and what you want. I would encourage a coaching session so I can really determine what’s holding you back and guide you along. Thank you for reading my blog about signs she loves you.

      1. I hope this helps. I didn’t have my first kiss until I was fifty. I was disfigured. We kiss and was great. When we were done she come back to me for a second less then two minutes later. So I guess I was a great kisser if she come back for more.

    2. Hi Apollonia, thank you so much for your email, I myself can relate to Mike, I haven’t been dating that much, so I have alot to learn too. But in some ways I have that thought that it’ll come naturally when I am head over heels with a woman. The thing that holds me back is fear of rejection and comparison these two things pulls me down the drain quick.

      1. Hi Eluang,
        Thanks for reading my blog about signs she loves you. My advice is to challenge yourself to not let your fear of rejection hold you back. We all have this it’s about how good we get at not aligning expectations to rejection.

    3. Relationships are not that great. I’ve had a relationship with a woman before but I decided to live in chastity for the rest of my life. I really think that you are not losing anything by not engaging with them. Besides you are really avoiding some real troubles in the future. All are roses in the beginning but women tend to feel entitled after some time and life becomes hell.

    1. Thank you so much apollonia, this blog is wonderful… Well I love your advice on a little challenge am facing. One is, there is this girl I love so much and I have told her already and she replied that she loves me too but she said she got a boyfriend but I love and I want her. What do I do?, secondly my friends girlfriend told me on a private chat that she loves me and want to have something going with me, what do I do?

  2. Hi Apollonia,
    What if she gave you all the signs but she’s not ready for a relationship just yet? She’s scared to be that vulnerable again and needs time to overcome that fear. I gave her distance recently but now I’m not sure of she feels the same as before.

  3. Is a women on her period really her because, I’m 24 and so is she. But every time she’s on her period she, goes over board with the little things. It’s escalated to the point where I’m trying to kick her out of the lease because apparently we’re done/broken up. Over that bull shit if he threading she’s wants her on space/life, but I been her everything/ rock.Is there any resolving solution to get her backup sole mate??? If it’s meant to be

  4. Solomon from Nigeria I took a girl out for a date. I so love her; But I keep calling her, texting her she won’t respond. Her excuse is this, I am busy.
    How can I get her.
    And is it a crime to be in love to beautiful ladies?

    Thank you so much Appollonia. You have really help me.

  5. There is this young lady that has shown the 7 signs recently and in the past to me. I’ve known her for exactly one year
    She is working 1 full time and 2 other part time jobs.
    She is a remarkable person focus on her objectives to improve on her self worth as well as payoff some of her debts….
    The other day, I ask her to go with me to a festival. She declined because someone else had already ask her to attend, unsure if it is a guy or a girlfriend.
    I believe it is the guy, because of her past relationship with him in the last 4 months. Unsure if they have broke up….
    That same day she ask me to pick her up from work and we went out, having a great time with lunch, shopping to celebrate her daughter’s birthday that nite. We talk about many things about our past and being a better person moving forward……
    Back to the festival invite. We both will be attending the same day event, you think it will cool for me to invite someone else (a female friend) who has interest in me too or go alone?
    Possibly I will see her there with this other guy too.
    The remarkable young lady who I have more interest with, in the past she has told me to move on…..I could lose her trust and this could possibly break her heart (she does play hard, the type that has to have control over situations)……
    Appolonia P. what do you think?

  6. Apollonia,
    I always like listening to your blogs. My Girlfriend broke up with me last Oct. 2018. We were together 16 years. Sometimes off and on. Mostly because all my friends have always been female and I didn’t realize how wrong it was until the last year or so. I Love her and want to Marry her. She gave the ring back when she broke up. But we occasionally talk, and text, and have even met up once. But sometimes she won’t respond for a long time, and I’m surprised sometimes when she does. I don’t think she’s seeing anyone else because of that, but I’m not sure. But I do want her back and I want to Marry her. I know it’s sounds complicated, but do you have any advice?

    1. Hi D,
      I would focus on your relationship problems and what brought you here. I would also suggest to find your happiness and make your life great so she can also see how you have taken control of the things you needed to work on for yourself and the relationship. I know it’s hard right now but taking control of your happiness will be the key to growth and really focusing on the things that you can change and work on.

  7. Hello appolonia i’ve a crush on some girl in my class and we had good moments like never before but during the holidays we had only talking on sociaux media i try to hangout with her in real life but she is always busy and that why i don’t know if i have continue to try or not

  8. Hi Apollonia! First of all love your work. I enjoy listening to you on youtube. I have watched almost all your videos. Thank you. At some point I may need to work with you. For now, there is a woman who I like very much. She is 25 years younger however her first marriage her husband was almost same age difference of almost 25 years. She like older men she feels we are more established, better conversations and she is attracted to intelligence. We work in the same field however we don’t work together. we have similar friends. We do things together, we laugh and we really enjoy each others company when together. We haven’t been intimate and aren’t in a relationship however it feels like there could be one. She went on vacation with her family recently and we didn’t text the whole time. I wanted her to enjoy family time so I didn’t bother her. Then when she got back she had to go on the road for work. So we didn’t have any communication for over 2 weeks. I took some of your information to create some mystery. Yesterday she texts me and says Solecito! which is nick name she gave me. She is Latina hence the Spanish name. Whats going on?! I waited a while and texted back not much just working how about yourself? She says work is good trying to catch up. Too many days gone Lol with happy face emoji. I didn’t text back. Then she texts me and asks if I am attending a seminar and I respond no. She responds me neither. Then she texts how is your schedule next week for Lunch or dinner. I said let me check my calendar I prefer dinner. Do you have a preference? She responds dinner sounds good pick a place with smiley emoji. I responded ok. She sends me animated smiley face that smiles and blinks. and she texts smile with sun emoji meaning smile solecito! Then in Spanish she asks me Solecito que pasa? Porque tan serio? You need a shot of country! She mentioned country because we both love country music. Prior to her vacation she sent me a text out of the blue that said miss you solecito with heart emoji with a kiss. I respond I missed her to. Later in that same text chain she sent me a text with 40 kissy emojis and the comments as how do like them apples? I am ready to tell her what I want, my real truth about how I feeling let her know. I don’t want to though if she really isn’t into me?Im not sure if it is flirting or if I am in friend zone. In June she took me to a country concert in the park. During the show a woman in the crowd threw her panties on stage and the artist put her panties on his guitar neck for everyone to see. I asked her, are those yours and she responded no I’m not wearing any! I said really!! She responds I never wear panties! She had skirt on and was showing cleavage however I was a gentleman because we hadn’t gone there yet. Sorry for the mouth full. When I first met her 3 years ago at lunch, I could tell there were sparks from the way she talked, treated me and acted. There was a mutual instant attraction. from both of us I am at the point I want her in my life completely and I want to give her unconditional love. I would be interested to hear your feedback on where you see this is our where I may stand with her? Thanks for listening

  9. Hello, my name is Ryan. I am constantly in my head and I don’t know if it’s just me or if my girlfriend really loves me. I have had a very long and Journey full life with immense pain and great happiness for being only 20 years old. I have moved in between 6 States, originating in Michigan. I used to be addicted to drugs so I moved to New Hampshire to start a better life. It was honestly a pin on the map type decision, to get away from the things I was doing. Me and my girlfriend have been together for quite some time, achieving 6 months now. I just recently moved to Maine about 26 weeks ago from this date. I then move back to Michigan for about a month and reconnected with her. She is 18, and we have a very strong bond. She works two jobs is going to be an LNA, and I have so many questions that I hope that you can answer so I might see if I am too far in my head for my own good, or if the things I am thinking are true. Since I have returned, oh by the way we had dated once before for about 2 months and the stress that was put on the relationship ended up making us break up. We broke up for about two days and she came back and asked if we could get back together because she was only stressed and didn’t know how to handle the situation at hand oh, being her mother doesn’t like me and she doesn’t have her father oh, she was 17 then I was 19, she was still in 12th grade, and her mother and her family we’re judging her and I for being together, as a result of my past which I have let go. I told her no, more or less because I was hurt, so I got with my ex girlfriend Kaitlyn. I realize this was a bad decision, Kaitlyn and I ended up moving to Maine for 2 months and then I move back to Michigan. Ever since I have returned, my girlfriend has been not really texting me as much, I took her virginity as soon as I got back here after a week or two of me being back. So the girl has been with no one else and I can vouch on this. She has been really distant so to speak when it comes to talkin throughout the day. She doesn’t always come over, no doubt most of the time I ask she comes over oh, but she has quite a few times where she makes excuses on not to come over. She won’t spend the night at my house, because she said she doesn’t know if she’ll sleep oh, and her mother is super judgemental and she still lives with her. Her best friend Molly and Molly’s mother recently offered her to let her come stay in their guest bedroom until her and I could get a place together. Tomorrow is today that my girlfriend told me she would let me know what she is going to do. She said she is scared to be an adult, and I’ve realized I have lived a and I’ve realized I have lived a lot more life than she has and my question for you is does she love me? I don’t have any of my family I’ll have too many friends I kind of just stick to myself and I’m okay with that. I have a select few that I keep around but I asked how can I tell if she wants to be with me forever. She said she is scared to move in with me, which I can understand, but at the same time she told me if I came back that we would get a place oh, she also says that she scared to take the offer from Molly. She said she has never lived without her mom. I don’t know if this is me overthinking but I really need answers and I hope you can give them to me. I need to know if I need to stay out of my head or I am right and what I am feeling. Please contact me if I can call sometime or something it would be a lot easier to say over a short phone call

  10. Hey,
    I have a question. What does it mean when a woman says she is in love with me but when I see her in person, sometimes when we are sitting together she’s more interested in her dog, phone and laptop while I’m sitting willing to engage with her and it really feels distant than being together and engaged. I’m worried that I’m wasting my time because I know if a woman is really in love with me and we are together she would do anything to engage with me. Yes I don’t expect her to go over the top, but when she is more happier to see her dog, be on her phone and laptop then there’s something wrong. I feel disrespected, less worthy of her time and less of a person next to her. What should I do?

    P.s she never used to do those things and we’re two years together.

  11. I have a girl that always call me pappy but i don’t always see her..she do post some guys on her whatsapp status but i don’t complain about it, is it possible for her not to love me anymore?..

  12. Hi SIR ..My girlfriend said she love’s me but she does not give me proper time ,proper importance ,She is not meeting me , she is not caring, When she is in front of me she react like there is no one in this world except me in her life , and when she go back she react like same as she is doing with me …..I am trueley in love with her I can’t live withour her …You know I am doing everything for her but she does’t do that for me .I loved her but I feel that I dont have any value in her life ….why is that I am too sad for this plz hep me out what should I do …How should I fix this I asked her many times why are u doing this then she said I dont know …and then again when I asked her ahe siad I love you …😭😭😭 plz help me I am too broken 😢💔💔💔💔💔

    1. Hi there,
      I know it hurts but the question is why are you entertaining someone who isn’t giving you interest. Taking a step back will probably be best. I know you’re looking for signs that she loves you but you might be pushing for this more than her.

  13. Hello there. I just need an opinion because I’ve never been in a situation like this before. I met a woman. We r both head over heels for each other. When I ask her she says she wants to spend time with me. But it never happens. I know she is busy with her career but I can’t help but think there might be another reason. We’ve been passionate and we talk on a daily basis. Telling each other good morning and goodnight every day. It’s very confusing. I don’t want to be played. What should I make of it!

    1. I have a friend we’ve talked for about one month though she came to visit me after few weeks we chatted she spent 3days in my house but she never wanted me to touch her because she said she’s engaged I never touched her anymore till she left up till now we’ve chatting and I always call her on the phone because I have feelings for her and I don’t want to lose her also as a friend so I don’t know what to do to make her know that she’s also sexually attracted to me I need help

  14. Thank you. I really love your article. But I Will love to know about a long distance relationship. How can I know if she truly love me. Because I am currently in a long distance relationship.

    1. Hi Yemison, thank you for stopping by and reading signs she loves you. How you guys communicate and her putting in the effort as well will show you. Is she wanting to schedule phone calls, is she interested in your life and what’s going on. Also… make sure that you’re still doing the work on yourself and falling in love with yourself. We can’t accept love from someone else until we love ourselves.

  15. Hi, thank you but I don’t know if my girlfriend still loves me ,bcoz we took long time without each other like almost two years but I calls she answers my calls and some time when you call you find that she is on another call but the most pain have sixdays back I called on her phone she didn’t picked up and another day in morning she called and she told me to stop calling her phone that she want to forget me…what is the sign of that?

  16. Thank you, I love your article but I’m in Long distance relationship two years, how do I know if she had somebody else?

  17. She said she loves me but for over six months she has not accepted to date me that she is scared of losing Me I don’t know wat to do

  18. Douglas,
    So my story is complicated. My co worker and I of 3 years has never shown me any signs that she even likes me. I am 30 no kids never married single for 2 years. She is divorced 32 with 4 children. the older their father is involved the younger 2 boys father is not involved currently. Anyway to make a long story short she has been through some pretty rough times as of late and she has been relying on me to help her with the kids help make sure they get to school on time make sure they get to bed. Sometimes I clock her in at work when I’m on shift because I know she needs the money. We work at a hotel. She is finally getting into an apartment after some really bad stuff went down with her mother whom she was previously staying with and a few weeks ago she mentioned how nice it would be to have a man around to help with the bills and with the kids but sex was off the table. I took that personal and also not well because I have always had a crush on her and so now she has mentioned having a man around so I asked her if I was on her list she says yes I asked if there was anyone else on their and she said no in kind of a wierd way. Her kids like me when they usually dont like anyone and I enjoy spending time with them but this woman has never shown me any signs that she is into me and I cant live with a women and help raise her kids without a relationship especially when I’m head over heels for her that would destroy my soul. Your list didnt really apply to me. Also she mentioned me as daddy doug I just wish I knew something just anything. I will probably lose this paige. If you have any advice for me at all could you please message me

  19. Hello mam i continuesly see your videoa on YouTube any also this one’s too i watched .you’re amazing mam, so so professional thank you very much
    Please read this. .
    I have a problem that a girl loves me i knew it when we’re in school everybody knows that . I and she are very good friends so she didn’t propose me but I knew it that she loves me, like she shows all the sings not only this she was always get jealous whenever I was with other girl, she touches and hold my hand many times, everyone even here best friend told my that she loves me even but now she isn’t meet me idk whys but I’m not that social and also mam I’m a trans guy, she know it first of all, even me.
    Thank you mam
    I love your contants and the YouTube channel, I love it😍❤❤❤😍😍❤❤❤❤.

    1. Thank you for stopping by and reading signs she loves you! So sometimes, it’s just because there’s something missing. Not everyone is meant to stay in your life. Some are only there to teach you something in order to love yourself more and work on yourself so you can meet someone even better.
      Keep learning how to love yourself and put yourself as a priority, and you’ll continue to attract amazing people/ things into your life.
      Wishing you the best, 🙂

      1. bullshit, I already love myself more than anything I literally see myself as a god, yet Im single for my whole life.
        Im 25 years old and started to try to get a girlfriend 20 months ago.
        I found someone who told me she loves me, I gave her flowers and helped her with her career etc.
        She always said she wants to wait with sex after marriage, which was fine for me, but I heard 2 weeks ago that she had sex with her business partner and is in love with him and never loved me, just used my help.
        I try to win her heart because my other choice would be to destroy it.
        Life could be so easy, Im so unlucky.. 🙁

        1. Hey there! Thanks for stopping by and commenting on signs she loves you. So! There’s a difference between loving yourself and having limiting beliefs, or subconscious thoughts that rule your behaviors. You can love yourself but still think you don’t deserve a great partner… or you can love yourself and BELIEVE that there are no good women out there (so your subconscious mind will only have you attracted to emotionally unavailable women)
          It sounds like you were trying to PROVE yourself to this girl, and also gifting her. People need to still feel like they earn your attention and earn you giving them gifts. I would look into limiting beliefs and stuck points and why you might have been attracted to someone who was emotionally unavailable to you. You’re not unlucky, just a great moment to dig in and learn from!
          You’ve got this! 🙂

  20. A girl started play hard to get like smiling,seeing me from far etc after few days i understand her game and i also played same game with her like i also ignored and when she ignored me i behaved normal bcz she was my type of girl after few days we both stoped giving signs signals to each other examinations over and i left that college after few days we meet facetoface i said hi and get reply as hi by her and thats it i didnt meet her again
    Can i get her in future like after 5 to 6 years can u help me how to get her bcz i feel like she truly had feeling for me how to talk to her,behave with her etcto get her back2 i am ready to move on but i dont want to give up if i meet again her i want to whati did i am wrong if i was wrong or just clearing all these feelings and make her my friend

  21. hi
    i was in a 3 month relationship with this girl, we both loved each other so much, in fact she was the love of my life. a few weeks into our relationship, she lost her phone and couldn’t get a new one soon, so our only means of communication was through her stealing her sister’s phone to call me and sometimes arranging meetings with me. But then all of that stopped and she started acting strange for a while. I didn’t see nor reach her for about two weeks, so my instincts told me something was wrong. I bumped into her one day and we chatted for a while. then she told me she’s no longer in love with me, like the love she had for me isn’t there anymore.
    i accidentally bumped into her yesterday and in the middle of our conversation, she told me she doesn’t even want to get any closer to me because she fears she might fall in love with me again. I asked her if i have hurt her in anyway but she said i have never done her any wrong, she just wants to be single for now.
    i need your help because i really love this girl and am ready to do whatever it takes to win her back
    Thank You

  22. Can a woman be in love with a man and not show physical signs that they love them. I have been friends with someone for four months and at first she tells me that she just wants to be friends, so I have not pushed for a physical relationship with her to respect her boundaries, but she texts me all the time, we have a dinner date every Friday night, and recently I have been invited to all her family’s holiday get together’s. And the only physical affection is an occasional hug. However, I feel that there is a strong connection with us, and when I try to address it with her she tells me she just wants to be friends.

  23. 20 years ago I met this girl at a friend’s house. The most beautiful woman I have ever layed my eyes on. O I couldn’t stop wanting to be around her. Then one day she broke up with me on my front porch. We parted ways and I didn’t see her for another 7 to 8 years. She called me up out of the blue and I acted like a dick and basically hung up on her. About 3 years later we reconnect and she comes over and once again my dumb butt blows her off. We kept in touch some what. Keep in mind by this time she had had 5 children. All the men in her life are scum bags. Well she hooks up with the same friend whose house I met her at. They have a son together and he treated her like shit so she got rid of him. By this time I had been living in another state for 8 years talking to her occasionally. After 11 years of living in another state, I moved back to my home state. She this time has been living in Michigan for 3 years. A week ago after 20 years I added her on Facebook after not having Facebook for years because of the political crap on it, we reconnected. She asked me to do something for her so her son would be okay(don’t wanna give out too much( information). After doing what she asked of me we started talking about the past and how we felt about each other. One thing leads to another and we ended up sending “personal” videos of each other to each other, the triple x versions. We tell each other that we love one another. We also talk about how selfish and ignorant we both were in our younger days. BTW she is 33 I am 41. I really really really want to be with her and she know it. Am I just wasting my time? Keep in mind she lives 16 hours away and she doesn’t want a relationship with anyone. Am I being blinded by ignorance again or is this real?

  24. Hi Apollonia, i read your blog and am impressed but, i have this girl a friend am dating that I took cares of her. She’s in her second year in varsity, but later things change. anytime I called she gave excuses like, her phone is off, her neighbour collected the phone , she was charging e.tc.
    I left her for a while, she refused to call even when I call or text. This’s someone I love and tried to build and nurture for future but began misbehaving. The last time I called she managed to pick, later she speak angrily that I have not been calling her, instead of apologizing to me.
    Sinced then, i seize to call her again and even deleted her cell phone.
    Need your advice as what to do.

  25. Hai I used to date this girl after a long time single and I meet this girl and we started to communicate like each and everyday,most of people began to think we dating and we can make a good couple.i started to develop some feelings and I told her I have developed some feelings for you she said no let’s not involve or talk about love.so after some few months we had an agreement to be in a relationship but at the we had to go on holidays so while we’re on holidays I told her that I Might not be coming back to the same City then she cried for about two days then she asked me why am I leaving her so soon while I love and want to with me she said.Then by God’s grace I came back to City and we spent lot of time together but the problem was she couldn’t give me an eye contact when I asked her why she said I don’t give a man an eye contact because she had a shy personality.i cheated on her and she caught me but we fixed things and we’re good again.and then she started to behavior differently with many excuses and we never had sex but recently she told me that I don’t feel comfortable when we make love but I found out that she is dating a lecture when I confronted her she was angry at me that I always say she’s cheating on me.she blocked me on her phone for a week then she unblocked me she told me that she misses me and I confronted her again now she’s not talking to me but when I asked her to fix things she said I must feel free.but I think she’s just fooling me because she’s still in love with the lecture.

    So what should I do?

  26. Hi. I am in love with a woman who has supported me for years. I can tell she is in love with me and have had that feeling from the get go. I met her in a facility and when we would hug, I could feel her having a hard time not doing more or hugging even longer. I feel this romantic vibe everytime I’m around her. Most staff push u away when u hug them for too long, but she didn’t. We still talk to this day. I have her number, Facebook and we talk anytime I need. Everytime we talk, she is always laughing and happy. She always encourages me to do the right things and says she loves me evrytime I tell her I love her. She gives me a nickname and she gi es me attention that she has never given any of the other kids I was with. I don’t have the guts to tell her because I don’t want to lose her and be rejected.

  27. how do i get a girlfriend? girls dont talk to me and i cant just make that first move. i’ve made first moves with all my fake friends and i did all the work. i’m desperate for a girlfriend. i’m so lonely and sick of being alone

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