How can you know if a woman is in love with you? There are many different ways to respond to this question but the length of your relationship is going to be the determining factor. First of all, it’s possible that you’ve just met a woman that you really like and you’d like to know if she feels the same way. The other possibility is that you’ve known each other for years and you’d like to know whether or not she’s still in love with you. In this article, I’ve decided to explore the answer to your burning question and reveal the telltale signs she loves you.
In this piece, I am going to explain female psychology and the feelings that your significant other or crush is experiencing. I have a pretty good idea of what questions are on your mind because for over ten years now I’ve been receiving messages from men in the same shoes as you every day. So if you’re wondering about these questions, you’re in luck: What are the signs that show that a woman is in truly in love? How do you know if your relationship is solid and that you can trust her? What are the best tips for deciphering what she’s feeling and figuring out whether or not she’s crazy about you?
Throughout this article, I’ll reveal what you need to know, what makes all the difference, and how to recognize the behavior of a woman in love. You will learn important signs (that are often well known) but you will also learn to recognize subconscious actions that a woman does when she’s invested in a relationship, when she has strong feelings for you, and when she is feeling happy and satisfied. Let’s not forget that the goal is to solidify the relationship regardless of what stage it is in, and to provide you with the maximum amount of happiness.
Even though sometimes the relationship isn’t very clear, there are some telltale signs that can help you feel more reassured. When you become aware of them, it becomes easier to maintain your self-control and not give in to panic or fear of losing her.
Of course, if you have any questions you can always write them in the comments section below and I would be more than happy to personally reply to you.
The most important signs she is in love:
1. A woman in love is happy and she glows!
The first thing I’d like to talk about when it comes to a woman’s love and emotions is her wellbeing and the happiness she feels on a daily basis. I can guarantee that if your girlfriend or wife is radiant then she’s feeling fulfilling and is enjoying life every day. If this is the case you don’t even need to look for more signs she loves you because it’s clear that she’s head over heels in love!
I know that this isn’t always that straightforward because sometimes your partner has a reserved personality, who doesn’t reveal what she’s feeling, and sometimes you might even be with someone who is pretending to be happy. If you take a closer look at what she’s saying, her gestures and her attitude, then you will see when she’s truly feeling good and acting natural, and when she’s playing a role. All women in love feel good when they’re close to their partners, and they have a special energy. It isn’t easy to describe but if I had to try to paint a picture, it would look something like this:
– She’s tender
– She’s patient
– She’s always smiling
– She puts things into perspective
– She feels alive and satisfied, which is the BIGGEST sign that she’s in love
If I had to take it a step further, I would say that instead of asking, “Alex, do you think that she’s still really into me? What are the signs of a woman in love?” You should focus on her happiness and ask, “Is she happy being with me?”
There is no better way to keep her by your side than by providing her with joy, laughter, special moments spent together, complicity, and all the elements that are crucial to a couple’s happiness. If this is the case, then you are the ideal partner and have no reason to worry about what she’s feeling!
2. Signs she loves you: She spends time with you and wants to see you!
When she is in love, the second indicator comes in the form of the time that she decides to spend with you and how much she invests in the relationship.
I know that this sounds obvious but in all honesty, when I started doing this work in 2007, I realized the most important resource we have as human beings are time and the amount of liberty we have. Women would have no desire to spend their time and energy on a man for whom they don’t feel anything.
I, therefore, encourage you to be confident and stay positive when you have a woman that makes an effort to be by your side or to have the opportunity to further seduce you!
I’m even going to take it a step further and say that one of the biggest signs a girl loves you is when she accepts all of your invitations to spend time together, even if it’s for simple things. This is huge because the more time you spend together, the more you’re able to show all your good sides.
This doesn’t mean that you should constantly be proposing things to do because you don’t want to be clingy, but when you can see that she’s become invested in the relationship and would like to see you, it is highly likely that she’s becoming very attached.
You don’t need to look at the blatantly obvious or ‘grandiose’ side of things to make sure that she is in love. This piece of advice is important because as human beings we like to hold on to a bit of magic in love, and this allows us to ignore the aspects of daily life… which are nevertheless very important.
I want to stress this point because it can easily be misinterpreted. What I want you to take from the is that you can organize an incredible weekend trip and she’ll, of course, be happy and look at you with love in her eyes. That said, make sure you don’t neglect your every day lives because with daily, small gestures, you’re going to reinforce her feelings for you and you’ll begin seeing more signs she loves you.
3. Signs she’s in love with you: You have an effect on her
I often talk about seduction as something that involves power play where both the men and the woman are always interconnected. What I mean by that is that it’s of utmost importance to hold on to the notion of attraction throughout the discovery phase and throughout the relationship.
If you feel like your girlfriend or wife responds to your gestures and she’s emotionally invested in the relationship (whether or not you live together), then she has very strong feelings for you.
For example, if you put a little distance between you and in turn she gets closer and wants to invest more, it means that subconsciously she has a fear of losing you. This is how you can test how attached she is to you. Just be careful to never cross the line because it can get out of control very quickly and you risk falling into emotional dependence, needing her to constantly prove her feelings for you.
You should also keep in mind that becoming too distant can turn around and bite you. The goal is to stay within reason so that you don’t make her unhappy. It’s not a game or a test to see if she loves you!
Signs a woman loves you: She includes you in her life!
I must admit, this one was a big surprise for me and it was one of the biggest lessons I learned from my experience in coaching women.
I have come to understand that when they love a man when they’re under his spell or even when it’s just the first days of the relationship, they don’t hesitate before integrating him into their life.
So if you’ve met someone who regularly puts you first, who doesn’t keep you away from her friends, who shares her passions with you, it means that you’re on the right track! Keep an eye out for this sign because it’s particularly telling and can help you evaluate how she feels about you.
After all when you really think about it, if she’s welcoming you into her personal life, you can take it as an excellent way to ease your doubts and anxieties about losing her. If this is how she’s acting, it actually means that the relationship is evolving and you are in the process of earning her trust as her feelings for you increase.
When a woman is in love, she is particularly focused on her partner.
1. How to tell she loves you: She’s always focused on you…
To go even further than the previous sign that she loves you, keep in mind that a woman has a hard time controlling her emotions when she feels a strong attraction and feelings for someone. So she will begin to show signs of a small scale emotional obsession and her goal will be to fill your life with joy.
It can be with a gift, special attention, an offer to give you a massage, or something that she says that boosts your ego, and you will be in the spotlight because she will be fully invested in the relationship.
When a girl is in love, there are telltale signs. After reading many different books on the differences between men and women, all authors (that base their work on scientific studies) focus on the fact that women communicate more through emotions.
Love, at first sight, is still an emotion so it’s hard to handle, and at one point she might want to devote herself to you completely. Don’t be frightened; this is just a sign that she is in love with you and that you are important to her.
This is one of the easiest ways to identify a woman in love. If you ever feel like it’s a bit too much for you to handle, you can tell her that it’s going too far and that she needs to focus a bit more on herself. Finding a happy medium in love is a delicate matter but with proper communication, you’ll be able to find a more balanced relationship.
2. How to know if she loves you: You’re the apple of her eye
There is another sign that she loves you that I’ve come to understand throughout my coaching experience. You may experience a form of jealousy that can arise as a result her past, the men she’s been involved with, and all of the unpleasant situations she’s been faced with.
In coaching two very different men, I came to the realization that a woman in love will know how to protect you from that.
I was helping Patrick save his relationship and he was with a woman who understood where he was coming from. He had asked her to no longer talk about the past because it made him uncomfortable. From that moment on, she knew how to protect him and show him how important he was to her on a daily basis, and their relationship was able to blossom. The past was no longer of any importance because they didn’t discuss it anymore!
And then there was Thibault. A man that lived in Belgium that needed help getting his message across. Each time he saw the woman he was dating, she would talk about the men that came on to her, the gifts that she would receive from them, and she would even talk about the things she had experienced with her exes.
She wasn’t able to change and show him how much she cared for him, and she ended up losing Thibault. I’m sharing this story with you to illustrate how a woman in love knows how to adapt her behavior and avoid doing anything that would cause you to be uncomfortable in any way. Under these circumstances, there is no need to ask yourself is she in love with me or what kind of behavior proves that she has deep feelings… The answer is blatantly clear if she’s protecting you and avoiding unnecessary disputes!
3. When a woman loves you she’s afraid of losing you!
The seventh and last sign she loves you is directly related to emotional dependence. This sign could be perceived as something negative but as we are talking about signs she loves you, we are going to consider it as a positive thing.
A woman that is very much in love would logically fear to lose her man, and this doesn’t necessarily have to have a negative effect on your relationship. If you enjoy being together and she has strong feelings for you, it’s normal that she would make a comment if you spend time with too many women or if you don’t give her much attention.
Some jealous comments or behaviors are actually signs of love that is strong and are therefore positive. If you feel that it’s going too far then you can mention it to her, and she should be able to take a look at her behavior and be more in control of it.
Bonus: When she’s in love she has an attitude!
It’s common knowledge that men prefer a woman with a bit of an attitude! I have to admit that I wasn’t really sure how I should title this last part, but I decided to just be straightforward about it. When a woman is nagging you, critiquing your attitude time and time again, or telling you that you should be more invested in the relationship, well, then I think it’s safe to say that she’s in love with you.
It is often said that there is nothing worse than ignorance and I completely agree with this idea. A woman in love is a woman that gives you attention, even when it comes to calling you out on little things that you might think are insignificant.
Let’s just say that you should accept this type of behavior as long as she doesn’t go overboard and as long as your relationship remains fulfilling because, in my opinion, it’s one of the biggest signs a woman loves a man.
You now know all of the biggest signs that a woman is happy and in love. Being aware of her love is one thing, but keep something in mind, Gentlemen. If you’ve successfully made her fall in love with you, be careful to not break her heart because once it’s broken, it’s hard to put the pieces back together.
Be a good partner to her and focus on the happiness that both of you can share.
If you have any questions or if you’d like to share your story in the comments section, go ahead!
I wish you nothing but the best.
Apollonia Ponti, your coach for knowing how to recognize the signs she loves you