Want to be the man that she constantly thinks about? It will be pretty simple after reading this article because I will tell you how women think, and how to make a girl like you & think about you non-stop! You have to connect on another level that most men don’t know how to do. So many women think, “If he only knew!” Well, you will know!
This article is designed to not only keep it real with you but also to highlight something that has worked for many clients that have been able to get girls to liek them & think about them non-stop. We women desire to be wanted by a man just like a man desires to be wanted from a woman. But the ultimate connection happens when you understand how a woman thinks. We are completely different than men in the way we process things and in terms of what makes us fall in love.
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How to get a girl to want you…
It all starts with the emotional connection when you are able to connect with her. An emotional connection does not mean that you get overly emotional and attached, but it does mean you voice your desires early on. This means you show her that you are the guy that she wants. The time that you spend with her is very important in the attraction phase. Make sure you remain calm, cool and collected while you are attracting her. You do fun things and make things pretty light-hearted early on. Do not put pressure on her. She has to want to desire you. This is how you make your presence known and start to get the girl to like you.
So, once you start going out on dates and you want the girl to like you, the goal is to remain in control of the situation. Do not tell her you want to be with her on the first, second, or third date. Also, do not get mad at petty things and throw a line like, “What kind of girl are you? Are you looking for something serious?” This is too aggressive.
I see many men going in head first too soon. Listen, things come up in life so try not to respond with ego if something happens. Let things progress naturally and do not try to force anything. The attraction phase is vital for this. This is when the girl is still trying to figure out if she likes you, if she likes you sexually, and if she desires to be with you long term. This is a sensitive area that a lot of men mess up. Keep in mind that a girl does not know you when you are in the beginning stages. This is women find attractive. I actually talk about 17 traits that make a woman attracted to you that you should check out after this.
A surefire way to spark her interest is to pace yourself and get to know her. You’ll have her attention when she sees that you are holding yourself of value. Men are visual creatures and when you see a perfect girl, you tend to go all in too soon because you’ve already decided this is what you wanted. But she hasn’t decided this yet. So, in turn, you start to get too intense, too early on. You may start assuming the worst of things if things do not go exactly how you want. Then you jump to conclusions and she could end up seeing you as someone who might not be secure with themselves or who might be too clingy in the future. This is what kills attraction. I bring this up now because this is something that happens often and in order to get the girl to like you and think about you non-stop, you have to make sure you do not kill the attraction early on.
How to get a girl to like you with these 4 pro tips!
So you have been going on dates and things can be going well or semi-well. Here is what you do to get a girl to like you:
- Do not be predictable!
- Be mysterious
- Don’t be afraid to do this multiple times
- Make plans after being busy to make her anticipate you
Read on below for more detail on these tips!
Tip #1 Do not be predictable! This is the most important thing of all. You want to show balance so she knows that she has to still to attract you and that she still has to do some work to get you. Example: If you text her “Good morning” or “Good night” all the time, then let her do it, too. Do not be the only one doing this as she has to show up in her ways too. Also, do not respond to her text to early on so she can get excited to see you on her phone. Let the anticipation build up before she sees you again.
Tip #2 – Be mysterious. Let her wonder what you are doing. Do not post every single second on social media about what you’re doing, what you’re eating, or what you’re thinking. Post less if you are active on social media. Also, mysterious means disappearing. You don’t want to disappear for too long but you want to disappear just enough so she wonders to what you are up too. If she texts you in the morning, say something like this later on that night:
“I’ve had such a busy day! I hope your day was great as well. I’m going to head to bed as I have a long day tomorrow. I’ll talk to you soon and goodnight.”
Then text her again in the morning so she sees you are present but still have a life of your own. This shows her that she is not yet your priority and ultimately women love this. It shows her that you have a sense of stability in your life and that you are fulfilled with the way you live it.
Tip #3 Do this a couple times. There are some coaches that will tell you to go off the radar for days but let’s be honest – if a woman is attractive she is not going to be turned on by this because she could think it’s shady. Instead, pop in and out on your terms. You are the busy one! Keep this up for about three days. When you start to engage in normal conversation again she is going to be thinking, “What is he up to?” She might think things like, “What is he doing that he is so invested in that he is not giving me all the time in his day?”
This stands out from a lot of other men and what they are doing right now. Remember you want to be less predictable which enhances the attraction phase. Most of the time this girl might even say, “When am I going to see you again?!” This is what you want!
Tip #4 Making the plans after being busy. Let me clarify what I mean. You want to pop in here and there, but be less attentive during this 3 or 4 days. Do not reply to her texts all the time and don’t be too available. When you start chatting with her again, focus the conversations back on her and what she has been up to. Tell her you have been busy and that work has been crazy. You don’t want to fully answer exactly what you have been doing so you can spark the mystery.
Once you do this schedule something with her eventually. Why? The time that passes will get her excited to see you again. That time that passes will get her looking forward to a date with you. Say something like this when planning a date: “Hey, I’m busy the next two days but have some time Friday night. Would you like a grab a drink around 7 pm?” Make sure your texts are simple and to the point. You never want to become her text buddy.
How to get a girl to like you more!
The ultimate way to get a girl to like you or to think about you more is by living a life that you truly love. Never forget about your goals and aspirations, and do something daily that gets you closer to them. This is the ultimate source of attraction. Women love this! A man that is comfortable in his own skin and that has taken the time to work on himself and his own insecurities really play a part in a woman’s life. Not only because he is putting himself first, but because he sees himself as a desirable man. At the end of the day, if YOU see it then the chances of her seeing it will be increased. The man that always holds himself with pride and dignity is the man that will win. If a woman is not reciprocating then you walk away with your head up because you continue to put yourself first, just like you would want your woman to do the same.
How to get any girl to like you
Girls want a man that has an abundance mentality and someone that has a life that he is in love with. Same as a man. He wants a girl that is happy in her life and has her sense of value and self. This is something women crave cause this is a powerful notion of the human psychology. Abundance mentality is something few men have unfortunately and as a girl, the most important thing that got me to settle down was a man like this when I was emotionally mature to understand this. He takes pride in social dynamics of his life and his personal growth as well as development. When you ask how to get a girl to like you it really comes down to the energy you are putting out there and also how you feel about yourself. Women are very intentional and intuitional we can feel it when a man is not 100% confident within himself by his actions, energy and communication. So the best tip you can know is the abundance mentality will attract on this. Read more here about the abundance mentality.
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Apollonia Ponti, an international certified coach and founder of apolloniaponti.com. She works with ambitious men to attract the woman they desire, build confidence, master their attraction skills and helps rebuild relationships.
You can find her expert advice on “is she using me”, plus a couple other of your core professional services, through her YouTube Channel, and Attract a Woman E-Book. To get real results with women NOW! Change your life and master your attraction. Book a coaching session here.